WTF GIRLS please help

[chaoseverlasting]

Shy girls are .... be as charming as you can so she'll open up to you, and once that happens, you got her. =]

Hehe, totally dude. Read up some jokes or something... get her to laugh...

 

[hover]

take her a reasonably nice place to eat.

McDonalds lol

 

[rhuthwaite]

read up on jokes? why not let natural humour take its course? People are the funniest when it isn't forced humour

 

[DaveC426913]

I don't agree with the numbering system, unless it applies to bra size.

We don't normally talk about anything below 5. :yuck:

Shouldn't it always result in an even number - a number divisible by 2?

 

[rhuthwaite]

I don't think I like the ranking system either, it could really damage a girls self esteem (which after its gone through all the critisms of girls is fairly low usually any way)

 

[radou]

I don't think I like the ranking system either, it could really damage a girls self esteem (which after its gone through all the critisms of girls is fairly low usually any way)

The girl criticism is a good point. You reminded me of a few 'girl-talks' i ear-witnessed recently. Boy, girls/women sure can be tough on each other.

 

[rhuthwaite]

more than you know

 

[Number2Pencil]

just do what i do and TELL the girl she's going on a date with you...

it shows you can take charge, are confident, and are a jerk...3 things girls go nuts over

okay I've only done it once...but it did work

 

[Math Is Hard]

more than you know

Yes, indeed. And to take it down one more level, we're pretty hard on ourselves. Perhaps to prepare ourselves for the more punishing levels coming up.
Social "power" is all about who gets to do the judging and who gets judged.

 

[J77]

McDonalds lol

Do you have GLC over in the US?

I'll give you a rose, pull out your chair when we eat
**** I can't, 'cos In McDonalds it's a bolted seat
Don't matter 'cos I'm here with you
With a medium value meal and a chocolate sundae too
Later on I'll come and help you sign on
I'll stare into your eyes, the housing benefits gone wrong
Don't worry baby it won't take too long
I'm just sitting, I'm just waiting, I'm just writing this song
You know that, time passes and I'm loving every second
Buying chips for you is as lovely as I reckoned
You're Victoria Spice, I'm David Beckham
If you were Dellboy, I'd be the streets of Peckham
Why don't you come to me, why can't you see
My love for you is like Matt Bolan to a tree

Safe as!

 

[Robert Mak]

Today i expressed my feelings to her, She told me that; she just want to meet new friends and she is still hurt by her boyfriend.
I feel good, that now i can continue to achieve my goals.
Sometimes im like obsessed to find the answer.
And thanks for the help!!!

 

[radou]

Today i expressed my feelings to her, She told me that; she just want to meet new friends and she is still hurt by her boyfriend.
I feel good, that now i can continue to achieve my goals.
Sometimes im like obsessed to find the answer.
And thanks for the help!!!

They always just want to meet new friends, and they're always still hurt by their boyfriends.

Just kidding. Thumbs up, Robert & good luck!

 

[Robert Mak]

They always just want to meet new friends, and they're always still hurt by their boyfriends.

Indeed... yeah always

 

[Moonbear]

They always just want to meet new friends, and they're always still hurt by their boyfriends.

Unfortunately, yeah, that's pretty much how it goes...but that "hurt" goes away really quickly if you meet someone you really want to date, so just wanting to meet new friends is usually exactly what it means.

 

[Robert Mak]

Should i still talk to her?, cause shes in my class... or should i never talk to her?

 

[Moonbear]

Should i still talk to her?, cause shes in my class... or should i never talk to her?

If you want to keep talking to her, why not? You never know, her attitude might change once she gets to know you better...just don't count on it and get your heart broken over it.

 

[radou]

... or should i never talk to her?

That wouldn't exactly be the wisest choice.

 

[Robert Mak]

Today i got a feeling of revenge toward her and i dont know why?
Do you experience that?

 

[verty]

What is a feeling of revenge?

 

[cristo]

Today i got a feeling of revenge toward her and i dont know why?
Do you experience that?

Why do you want to seek revenge against her; the poor girl's not done anything to you! You wanted to be more than friends, but she told you straight that she doesn't. She's been honest with you, and hasn't led you on or anything.

I think you need to let this one go, and just be friends with her, and stop obsessing over a girl you hardly know!

 

[radou]

I think you need to let this one go, and just be friends with her...

..or don't, since that doesn't always work out. But on the other side, friendship can lead to a relationship. It all depends.

 

[cristo]

..or don't, since that doesn't always work out.

Very true, perhaps I should rephrase, and say that he should let it go, and just be friendly towards her, and see if a friendship does happen.

But on the other side, friendship can lead to a relationship. It all depends.

I'm not sure whether this happens very often, at least not in my experience. Either way though, he needs to let go, since if he approaches a friendship whilst really wanting a relationship, I very much doubt it will work!

 

[radou]

I'm not sure whether this happens very often, at least not in my experience. Either way though, he needs to let go, since if he approaches a friendship whilst really wanting a relationship, I very much doubt it will work!

I completely agree.

 

[Moonbear]

Why do you want to seek revenge against her; the poor girl's not done anything to you! You wanted to be more than friends, but she told you straight that she doesn't. She's been honest with you, and hasn't led you on or anything.

I think you need to let this one go, and just be friends with her, and stop obsessing over a girl you hardly know!

Geez, if he's obsessing about her to the point of feeling like he wants revenge for being rejected, maybe he shouldn't try being friends with her...just stay away! That's not at all normal. Angry, or hurt, sure, normal reactions, but desiring revenge? That sounds...well, pathological. Robert, if you're feeling that extreme of a reaction to being turned down by someone you didn't even know yet, you probably should talk to someone about that. That's not a healthy response at all. Save the feelings of revenge for the long-term girlfriend who cheats on you and dumps you for the other guy (still don't act on them).

 

[cristo]

Geez, if he's obsessing about her to the point of feeling like he wants revenge for being rejected, maybe he shouldn't try being friends with her...just stay away! That's not at all normal. Angry, or hurt, sure, normal reactions, but desiring revenge? That sounds...well, pathological. Robert, if you're feeling that extreme of a reaction to being turned down by someone you didn't even know yet, you probably should talk to someone about that. That's not a healthy response at all. Save the feelings of revenge for the long-term girlfriend who cheats on you and dumps you for the other guy (still don't act on them).

I agree, it is abnormal to be feeling like he wants revenge for girl rejecting him, and your advice is good; to stay away while he's feeling like this. I suspect (/hope) that this is just an overexaggeration, and he doesn't feel like seeking revenge, but just feels angry.

Robert, I think you should just steer clear for a while, and maybe try chatting to her when you've got over this upset and anger. After all, the fact that she was honest with you shows that she's a decent girl! However, if you actually are feeling like seeking revenge, then I second Moonbear; this is not normal, and you should talk to someone about this. IF you're feeling like that over a girl you hardly know, I dread to think what will happen in the future when you break up with a girl who you've been with for a long time. You need to sort out these feelings now, and not wait for that time to come!