Does everyone here have an inferiority complex?

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In summary, the conversation discusses the trend of people trying to get into prestigious universities like US Ivy League or Oxbridge, and the speaker's personal experience with elitist universities in Australia. They question the pursuit of these universities and suggest that attending a decent university and following a happy career should be the goal instead. The conversation also touches on the stereotype of snobbishness at these universities and the importance of pedigree in theoretical physics. The speaker argues that striving for success and not settling for momentary happiness is not a sign of inferiority complex, but rather self-love.
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I truly don't mean to be beligerant, but I've been reading these (often helpful) forums and I keep seeing people trying to wrangle their way into US Ivy League or Oxbridge, and asking people to placate their fears of inadequacy.

I have some experience (a BSc) with elitist universities like these in Australia (yes, we have our own elitisms/rankings/snobbery) and must say it was a less than enjoyable 4 year stint, mainly because I was not like most of the other people who studied there.

Doesn't anyone here want to go to a decent uni, get a good degree, and follow on to a happy career? Why is everyone chasing these brand-names uni's? It saddens me a bit to think that people are pursuing these goals simply because it's expected of them.

In my experience, a first is a first and experience (voluntary or otherwise) counts for a lot more than most.
 
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No, not everyone here has an "inferiority complex". Your post is not belligerent, just ignorant, for a first post by making such a sweeping statement like that.

Zz.
 
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pdunc said:
I truly don't mean to be beligerant, but I've been reading these (often helpful) forums and I keep seeing people trying to wrangle their way into US Ivy League or Oxbridge, and asking people to placate their fears of inadequacy.

I have some experience (a BSc) with elitist universities like these in Australia (yes, we have our own elitisms/rankings/snobbery) and must say it was a less than enjoyable 4 year stint, mainly because I was not like most of the other people who studied there.

Doesn't anyone here want to go to a decent uni, get a good degree, and follow on to a happy career? Why is everyone chasing these brand-names uni's? It saddens me a bit to think that people are pursuing these goals simply because it's expected of them.

In my experience, a first is a first and experience (voluntary or otherwise) counts for a lot more than most.

I personally think that these types of universities are wayyyy overrated and overexpensive. I read someone where that AP did a poll a 3 years back and the poll reveal that Harvard students confessed to be the most unhappy students compared to students polled at other universities. So the Harvard experience must not be all its cracked up to be.

I know there are lot of good physicists at a lot of non-elite schools and schools that are not even on the top-thirty lists who are decent physicists who live healthy and productive lives

I can't say whether the students and professors at these universities you described are snobby or not because I have never attended any ivy university. But most people who have attended these universities tell me the ivy league students are very intelligent and do not give off a snobbish demeanor.
 
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Benzoate said:
I personally think that these types of universities are wayyyy overrated and overexpensive. I read someone where that AP did a poll a 3 years back and the poll reveal that Harvard students confessed to be the most unhappy students compared to students polled at other universities. So the Harvard experience must not be all its cracked up to be.

I know there are lot of good physicists at a lot of non-elite schools and schools that are not even on the top-thirty lists who are decent physicists who live healthy and productive lives

I can't say whether the students and professors at these universities you described are snobby or not because I have never attended any ivy university. But most people who have attended these universities tell me the ivy league students are very intelligent and do not give off a snobbish demeanor.

The problem in any kind of characterization of the outcome of such endeavor is that, other than a few anecdotal accounts, it is very difficult to make any kind of generalization. This is because in many cases, it is highly dependent on what the student is actually doing, or specializing in.

If one is doing, say, experimental physics, then what is important is the facility and availability of such facility and support. Here, while the "brand name" schools tend to have significantly more of such thing, other less well-known schools can also have equally the same kind of access. This is especially true if such facilities are at a US Nat'l Lab, for instance. So in experimental physics, there is less of a dependent on having to be at one of these brand-name schools.

The situation isn't as democratic in theoretical physics. Here, as I've mentioned elsewhere, pedigree plays an important role. Who your supervisor was when you were doing your graduate work can often be a significant factor in terms of recognition and prestige. This doesn't mean you still don't have to produce good work - you do. But if you had, say, Phil Anderson as your Ph.D supervisor, that carries A LOT of weight. And unfortunately, these well-known theorists tend to be at these brand-name schools. These schools tend to have the money and the ability to attract these theorists.

BTW, my definition of "brand name schools" tend to be wider than most students narrow definition. While most people equate that with nothing more than Ivy League schools/MIT/Caltech, my scope covers many other high-powered schools that are very well-known here in the US among the academics, but may not be as well-known to the general public, especially outside the US. This includes UIUC, Stanford, Michigan, North Carolina, Boston U., Johns Hopkins, etc...

Zz.
 
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To apply yourself after the best of your ability is not a matter of inferiority complex. It's a matter of loving oneself, people who love themselves also strive in their lives for more than momentary happiness. Sure I could watch movies all day long with my friends drinking beer and chatting about ****. But I choose not to, I choose another path, does that make me have an inferiority complex? I would say the opposite friend :). Because if You love yourself, you got to apply yourself to the max of your ability and really try to raise that max.

I myself, am aiming for oxbridge, if that will come to pass? who knows? and in the long run, It doesn't matter. But aiming for semi-impossible things makes for greatness.
 
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ZapperZ said:
The problem in any kind of characterization of the outcome of such endeavor is that, other than a few anecdotal accounts, it is very difficult to make any kind of generalization. This is because in many cases, it is highly dependent on what the student is actually doing, or specializing in.

If one is doing, say, experimental physics, then what is important is the facility and availability of such facility and support. Here, while the "brand name" schools tend to have significantly more of such thing, other less well-known schools can also have equally the same kind of access. This is especially true if such facilities are at a US Nat'l Lab, for instance. So in experimental physics, there is less of a dependent on having to be at one of these brand-name schools.

The situation isn't as democratic in theoretical physics. Here, as I've mentioned elsewhere, pedigree plays an important role. Who your supervisor was when you were doing your graduate work can often be a significant factor in terms of recognition and prestige. This doesn't mean you still don't have to produce good work - you do. But if you had, say, Phil Anderson as your Ph.D supervisor, that carries A LOT of weight. And unfortunately, these well-known theorists tend to be at these brand-name schools. These schools tend to have the money and the ability to attract these theorists.

BTW, my definition of "brand name schools" tend to be wider than most students narrow definition. While most people equate that with nothing more than Ivy League schools/MIT/Caltech, my scope covers many other high-powered schools that are very well-known here in the US among the academics, but may not be as well-known to the general public, especially outside the US. This includes UIUC, Stanford, Michigan, North Carolina, Boston U., Johns Hopkins, etc...

Zz.

I was mainly was saying that I think ivy league schools are overrated for undergrad students. Why pay more back for your college loans than you have to if you are more or less going to learned the same physics education that you might learn at a less well known universities. Sure, there are probably more sophisticated laboratories at these universities , but students could always apply to an REU program at a university that has your research topic of interested. I hear many people tell me it really matters what grad school you attend because some of the research topics you might be interested in might be only at a really top tier university. What is the significance of have a PhD. supervisor like Steven Hawking other than that he is a world renown research physicist known for his work on black hole radiation.
 
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Benzoate said:
I hear many people tell me it really matters what grad school you attend because some of the research topics you might be interested in might be only at a really top tier university. What is the significance of have a PhD. supervisor like Steven Hawking other than that he is a world renown research physicist known for his work on black hole radiation.

But again, that would be the theoretical physics area, and I've mentioned about pedigree already. Whether justified or not, it is a factor that your PhD supervisor was Steven Hawking. One only needs to look at what happened to every single graduate student that he graduated. Same goes with my example with Phil Anderson. Granted that many of these physicists get to hand-pick the best candidates there are out there, but that's a fact in this field that these theorists produce outstanding work from their students, and thus, causes others to look highly upon those students when they graduate.

As for undergraduate education, I've always argued that people who simply want to go to these brand name schools and not others have a very strange and short-sighted view of undergraduate education.

Zz.
 
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ZapperZ said:
But again, that would be the theoretical physics area, and I've mentioned about pedigree already. Whether justified or not, it is a factor that your PhD supervisor was Steven Hawking. One only needs to look at what happened to every single graduate student that he graduated. Same goes with my example with Phil Anderson. Granted that many of these physicists get to hand-pick the best candidates there are out there, but that's a fact in this field that these theorists produce outstanding work from their students, and thus, causes others to look highly upon those students when they graduate.

As for undergraduate education, I've always argued that people who simply want to go to these brand name schools and not others have a very strange and short-sighted view of undergraduate education.

Zz.


What are the typical qualities a pHD candidate must adhere too to be considered a really good pHd candidate?
 
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I personally would consider being able to talk at over 3 words per minute a good thing in a supervisor, and especially important if they had a lot of other commitments...

I was rejected from Oxford as an undergraduate, from talking to someone else a year or two above me who did get it it sounds like I didn't miss much. They have a similar number of students to where I ended up (Bristol) and it sounds like less choice of classes, despite having enormously more members of staff and postgrads. This sounds to me like they're not that interested in undergraduate teaching, whereas Bristol almost seem like they're not that interested in research and would rather teach.

When applying for PhDs, I got rejected from 5 places (none of them Cambridge, and 2 who had accepted me as an undergrad) and only accepted by Oxford. So it wasn't a brand name thing, it was a combination of recommendation from people in the field and ending up with no choice.
 
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Benzoate said:
What are the typical qualities a pHD candidate must adhere too to be considered a really good pHd candidate?

Pass the qualifying exam. :)

Zz.
 
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ZapperZ said:
Pass the qualifying exam. :)

Zz.

what year as a pHD student do pHD students take their qualifying exam?
 
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Ok, it was a generalisation to say "everyone" on the board has an IC. Apologies. Don't know why I wrote it because it isn't even what i meant.

But the rest of my comment stands.
 
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Benzoate said:
what year as a pHD student do pHD students take their qualifying exam?

For most schools, they have to pass it by the end of the 2nd year. I believe I've written a whole chapter on this in my "So You Want to Be A Physicist" essay.

Zz.
 
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I don't think don't think the US concept of qualifying exams applies to Oxford or Cambridge, unless I'm in for a shock next year or Cambridge do weird stuff I don't know about. They seem to be marginally equivalent to showing you've made suitable progress at the end of the first year in the UK university, but you would need to have been accepted onto the programme a year ago to be in that position (and do something really stupid to get kicked out).
 
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I think this is a glass half-empty/half-full situation.

Nine times out of ten, when someone posts one of these "Do I have a chance to get into XYZ University?" posts, I don't see someone who has an inferiority complex, I see someone who is totally delusional about their prospects.
 
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Oh no, my inferiority is quite simple.
 
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TMFKAN64 said:
Nine times out of ten, when someone posts one of these "Do I have a chance to get into XYZ University?" posts, I don't see someone who has an inferiority complex, I see someone who is totally delusional about their prospects.

Given how many non-academic factors are used in college admissions, I'm not surprised in any way that students find it difficult to know where they can get in.
 
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Does everyone here have an inferiority complex?

I know I do.

I have a BS in Physics and I can't get a job.
 
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TMFKAN64 said:
Nine times out of ten, when someone posts one of these "Do I have a chance to get into XYZ University?" posts, I don't see someone who has an inferiority complex, I see someone who is totally delusional about their prospects.

Why?

At least as far as undergraduate applications are concerned, there's a good number of misguided 18-year-olds who do have the grades to apply to a top university. You have then:

i) uncertainty as to what one wants to do with his/her life
ii) entrance exams / interview process to pass

An amalgamation of i and ii often yields questions of the type, "do i have a chance to get into oxford?" etc., the answer to which is unequivocably, YES, but expect i) to do your odds no favours.

See I'm assuming you mean by what you said: "If you have to ask if you have a chance of getting in, you have no chance of getting in," which reminds me of a similar contentious viewpoint regarding genius: "Genius doesn't ask what genius is. Genius is." Rubbish. Granted there are those who are trying to reach out and grasp onto the remnants of something they once had and so pose such questions really in kidding themselves... BUT.. this whole 'get on with it and don't question yourself' attitude is enough to destroy the very potential which self-doubt inspires...

To add to that... the inferiority complex is a very useful tool with a good bit of guidance, only guidance needn't be so hard-faced as to try to undo the very inferiorities which beg the root question: how best might I channel my inferiorities in the context of this existing educational system...? or in other words: give me guidance as to which university i should attend and I would hope i'll discover myselfa good deal more in my 4 years there.
 
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I think I fell off the thread of my last post at the end... edit:


At least as far as undergraduate applications are concerned, there's a good number of misguided 18-year-olds who do have the grades to apply to a top university. You have then:

i) uncertainty as to what one wants to do with his/her life
ii) entrance exams / interview process to pass

An amalgamation of i and ii often yields questions of the type, "do i have a chance to get into oxford?" etc., the answer to which is unequivocably, YES, but expect i) to do your odds no favours.

See I'm assuming you mean by what you said: "If you have to ask if you have a chance of getting in, you have no chance of getting in," which reminds me of a similar contentious viewpoint regarding genius: "Genius doesn't ask what genius is. Genius is." Rubbish. Granted there are those who are trying to reach out and grasp onto the remnants of something they once had and so pose such questions really in kidding themselves, but then I think a good number of students have only a "course preference" and look to dress that up by going to a good university, as opposed to a real course enjoyment whereby they ask for the sake of finding a suitable course.

Either way it boils down to being misguided and not deluded about ability.
 
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FrancisZ said:
I know I do.

I have a BS in Physics and I can't get a job.

I know I do too, however my problem is that I can't QUIT a job. Actually finding one is easy as pie.

About a year ago while I was in school I had the confidence and security to say, "I am hot stuff, I know a lot". Now I realize I was completely ignorant and know absolutely nothing. I probably know about a tenth of the stuff the average person on this forum does. However, when I ask "Can I get into top school XYZ", I know the answer is no, and I do know enough to not make a post about it.
 
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loonychune said:
At least as far as undergraduate applications are concerned, there's a good number of misguided 18-year-olds who do have the grades to apply to a top university..

These students I would include as part of the 1 in 10. But it seems to me that most of the questions come from students who are somewhat above average but have very little chance of admission (unless they have some outstanding achievement that they failed to mention in their post).

loonychune said:
See I'm assuming you mean by what you said: "If you have to ask if you have a chance of getting in, you have no chance of getting in,"

The fact of the matter is, the top colleges are *amazingly* competitive. Anyone applying to these schools needs to think about whether they have a chance of getting in or not.

Go take a look at Princeton's website... they have some interesting admission statistics posted there. They admit about 1/6th of the applicants that have a 4.0 GPA, and about 1/4th of the applicants that have an SAT over 2300. So the odds are heavily against even the very top students!
 
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I'd have said most students (more than 1 in every 10) in the UK don't even consider Oxbridge unless they have 3 A grades or are on for 3 As, in which case they would likely get an interview and so pose the question "What are my chances?" when in fact they should be asking "Do I want to go here? How best to approach the interview?"

Perhaps when people start saying things like... my GPA is 3.0 or I am a 3 Bs student.. then it is a bit deluded; I suppose I just didn't think many people in that position would actually CONSIDER the prospect in the situation.
 
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But the situation sort of confuses applicants because these schools DO accept students with some SAT sections below 700, and it's hard for applicants to know if their "soft" factors compensate for below average test scores, since they don't know what admissions are like.
 
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I think in general, the people who don't have top flight GPA's, SAT scores, etc. have really outstanding extra curricular. Maybe they took a lot of college courses in the summer, maybe they were involved in local research programs, maybe they did meaningful volunteer work at a hospital. I mean they aren't going to let in a kid with an 80 average and a 80% SAT score without some really good outside activities and accomplishments. Maybe he participated in a Physics or Math competition and scored very well.

And in general, a lot of the big name schools that are thrown around here have 10-20% admissions rate, so even if you are qualified, your chances aren't good to begin with.
 
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Yes, but how do kids

For example, I got rejected at my first and third choices, and waitlisted at my second choice. For all 3 schools I was within the middle 50th percentiles for SATs and below average for grades. How was I supposed to know if my ECs would be good enough to overcome my grades?
 
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You weren't. I know it's hard for math and science minded people to accept, but admissions is a human process - there is no deterministic formula; for if there was, you wouldn't even have to ask (the irony being that asking is nonetheless a useless exercise. "Is my application competitive at MIT" can only be answered conditioned on whether or not you got accepted to MIT.)
 
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ZapperZ said:
Who your supervisor was when you were doing your graduate work can often be a significant factor in terms of recognition and prestige. This doesn't mean you still don't have to produce good work - you do.

Zz.

Note: Using "he" because it's easier.

It's not only what kind of research the supervisor does and so on either.

First, find supervisors with your main field of interests.

Second, how active is he in his field?

Third, go meet the professor. How is his personality and character? Does he really love his field?

Fourth, what else does he like about mathematics besides his research area? Does he solely have focus on that field or those he enjoy reading papers in Number Theory for fun or Dynamical Systems (some applications are very neat)? (Yes, I consider this important because it displays well-roundedness.)

Fifth, does he know people? What can he do for you? Can he send you to conferences? A good school for a Ph.D if that's what you want? Just about anything.



My supervisor can send me to my university of choice for a Ph.D since he's worked there prior to the school I'm at now. I have to do a good Master's of course, so I'll have to work hard at that. He's very well-rounded and seems to know a lot about everything! Character and personality is outgoing and thoughtful to all of his students. His research area is inline with mine. He also has another student coming in this year, so I'm not alone which is a bonus.

Yeah, I plan on working hard just to make my supervisor happy since he's probably the best out there.

Note: Going to a big name school with a horrible supervisor is probably the worst thing you can do.
 
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Alex6200 said:
But the situation sort of confuses applicants because these schools DO accept students with some SAT sections below 700, and it's hard for applicants to know if their "soft" factors compensate for below average test scores, since they don't know what admissions are like.

Even MIT has a football team. :smile:

Seriously, I suspect that the admits with lower scores have some extraordinary factor that compensates. Not just a bunch of nice extracurricular activities... something truly extraordinary. Some struggle overcoming tremendous odds or being a champion something-or-other. Some factor that makes you special and unique. (Just like everyone else...)
 
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Yes, but I think my point still stands that it's hard for applicants to know how much being a star athlete, minority, or born into a low socioeconomic class matters in the admissions process - so we shouldn't be surprised that tons of kids apply to schools where they aren't competitive.

In fact, I think it would helpful to have a law requiring schools to publish what percent of applicants were accepted for any given combination of SAT scores, subject test scores, and class rank. That would at least give applicants a rough idea of their chances so that they can better focus on schools that are likely to accept them.
 
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Theory: Any B/C even D student can turn themselves into an A student. Evidence: me. What did it: really wanting to do it, a good textbook (either given or sought out), doing previous years exam papers following the current syllabus until I was acing them, not trusting teachers (they often don't give a ****), and learning how to learn:

Make the Most of Your Mind by Tony Buzan
 
  • #32
Naw. If anything I have a superiority complex. I think this is the right way to go - even if it's not very realistic, it's often helpful.
 
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But the trouble is you have to be predicted an A early enough for it to count. Applying to somewhere very competitive when you're predicted Ds they're just going to ignore you even if you swear on your life you'll get an A. Being predicted a C in further maths might have been what kept me out of Oxford first time round, I actually got an A.

Jason's advice is nice in an ideal world, although in practice you don't often get much say in who your supervisor will be, at least in physics. I know someone who started a PhD very much under the impression he'd get one supervisor, and ended up with someone terrible. At least in the British system you normally apply to the research group, not the supervisor, so you could get anyone, but I do also know some people who knew early enough for it to be a factor who their supervisor would be.
 
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mal4mac said:
Theory: Any B/C even D student can turn themselves into an A student. Evidence: me. What did it: really wanting to do it, a good textbook (either given or sought out), doing previous years exam papers following the current syllabus until I was acing them, not trusting teachers (they often don't give a ****), and learning how to learn...

I definitely agree. Science teachers at the university level are known to be quite selfish. You'd be surprised how generous high school teachers and community college professors are in comparison. Many are not there just for the salary, although university professors can be.

Which is not to say that they are all bad, but that the major mistake I made as an undergraduate student was believing everything I was told; and waiting patiently for the faculty to make good on promises.

My liberal arts professors were definitely more of the order of "teacher" rather than merely a "professor," when you get down to it. I learned by going to their classes.

If you want to learn Science though, go to the labs and do your reports. Read the textbooks by yourself; make your own notes. And make an honest working schedule for yourself (do not take their advise unless you absolutely trust them).

I think the absolute best way to learn Physics is the lab and a good textbook. Always work the sample problems in the book--that was always a confidence builder for me at least!

But don't feel bad about not showing up for class, unless you are actually having an attendance issue already. Professors are always more impressed by good grades; and sometimes they can really screw you up with the mean things that they say or believe.

Happiness = success as far as I was concerned. When I was miserable because my professor in chem told me they wanted us all to fail, I did poorly. But when I got angry enough to go my own way and study alone, I did well. When I felt comfortable in my own skin around the department, I did even a little bit better.
 
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metalgirl2045 said:
But the trouble is you have to be predicted an A early enough for it to count. Applying to somewhere very competitive when you're predicted Ds they're just going to ignore you even if you swear on your life you'll get an A. Being predicted a C in further maths might have been what kept me out of Oxford first time round, I actually got an A.

Pah. There's always a way. Do the A levels, making sure you get A's (!), then apply for next year. Spend the year out writing detailed notes on Feynman's lectures on physics & Penrose's Road to Reality for 16 hours a day. Send a copy of your notes to top dogs (Hawking, Penrose, Magueijo ...)* and tell them you *really* want to study physics in their department/college. Then you only have to become a top wrangler and revolutionize physics to be the next Einstein :-)

* Read a biography of Faraday to see how (something like) this approach worked with Davy. 'Diogenes the dog' had an even more direct approach, but you don't want to frighten the horses or get arrested.:smile:
 
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