Am I a bad influence? *evil grin*

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The discussion revolves around the influence of music on young listeners, particularly in the context of an older sibling's concern about the appropriateness of their musical choices for an eight-year-old. Participants explore their own experiences and perceptions of being a good or bad influence on younger family members.

Discussion Character

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Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses guilt over their music choices, noting that their younger brother enjoys bands like Korn and Slipknot.
  • Another participant suggests that some music, like Linkin Park, may be acceptable, while expressing disapproval of other bands mentioned.
  • A participant humorously claims to have taught their brother how to sacrifice virgins, questioning the seriousness of influence.
  • Concerns are raised about the appropriateness of lyrics for young listeners, with one participant suggesting a conversation to understand the child's perspective on the music.
  • Some participants share their own musical tastes, contrasting them with the original poster's choices and expressing a preference for different genres.
  • There is a playful exchange about the influence of music and the idea of controlling others' tastes.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants express a mix of agreement and disagreement regarding the influence of music on children. While some acknowledge the potential negative impact of certain lyrics, others downplay the concern, suggesting that children may not fully understand the content.

Contextual Notes

Some participants reference personal experiences with music and video games, indicating a broader cultural context of what is considered appropriate for children. There is also a playful tone in the discussion, which may affect the seriousness with which some points are made.

Who May Find This Useful

This discussion may be of interest to older siblings, parents, or guardians concerned about the media influences on younger family members, as well as those interested in the cultural implications of music choices.

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Am I a bad influence?? *evil grin*

Okay, so I don't FEEL evil. More like guilty. Even a little freaked out.

My eight year old brother likes to hang out with me, which is cool. I listen to music in my room sometimes, and I don't really think about what I'm playing when he's around... ahem... and, well, I've got this one burned CD I tend to listen to (I know, shame on me)...

Let's just say he's grown rather fond of Korn, Lincoln Park, Disturbed, and Stutterfly, to name a few (and sadly, even a little Slipknot). I feel pretty bad. I mean, the kid's eight years old for crying out loud.

Buuut, other than that, I think I'm a pretty good influence (go ahead and laugh).

Do you guys think you're a good influence to friends, family, or whatever?
 
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I try not to be, but once in a while something slips by.
 
Linkin Park is acceptable (POD and Alice in Chains are good too).

Korn - so, so.

Disturbed and Stutterfly - I can do without.


But Slipknot
 
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Lincoln Park

As a fan of linkin park I cannot accept that you misspelled their name.:-p

But Slipknot

Hey they actually have some good lyrics.
 
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ranger said:
As a fan of linkin park I cannot accept that you misspelled their name. :-p
Ouch... You're absolutely right! I should lay off the Halloween candy and consume more sleep.

And yeah, the lyrics to LP are okay I guess. But so angsty for such young ears, don't you think?
 
I taught my brother how to properly sacrifice virgins. Does that count?
 
My best friend's six year old son plays GTA San Andreas...
You're not that bad, but your taste in music is atrocious. :-p
 
Niode said:
Ouch... You're absolutely right! I should lay off the Halloween candy and consume more sleep.
Yes, I prefer to consume sleep as well.

Your taste in musics is atrocious.
I like that old time rock and roll...
the kinda musics that soothes so soul.
 
TheStatutoryApe said:
My best friend's six year old son plays GTA San Andreas...
You're not that bad, but your taste in music is atrocious. :-p

Oh believe me, that's not the entire range of my musical taste. Heavy alternative can get rather tiresome after awhile... I enjoy oldies, new age, classical, and just about anything else except for country and rap.

Yeesh... I know a little kid who plays that game, too (not my little brother, mind you). But he's not THAT young...
 
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Niode,
I would just talk to him -- find out why he likes the songs and what he thinks the lyrics mean. If you discover that there's nothing to be concerned about, you can stop feeling guilty. If it turns out that you've had a negative effect, you can try to correct it. :smile:

I don't merely influence people; I control them! Muahahahaha! :devil:
 
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You know, that's actually a pretty good idea. I'll ask him after school today.
 
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Niode said:
You know, that's actually a pretty good idea. I'll ask him after school today.
Aren't my powers of control amazing? It's okay, you don't have to tell me. I already know your answer. :-p
 
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I fell right into that, didn't I? :biggrin:

I'm guessing he'll say he doesn't understand the words, that he just likes the music and how it sounds. Who can understand Slipknot without a lyrics sheet, anyway?

We'll see if you're answer (whatever that may be) proves to be correct. :-p
 
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I know I'm not a good influence.

But at least I'm better than my friends brother, he's been buying us booze for years.
 

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