Has anyone changed their name? I want something more unique

lisab

I knew a woman years ago who wanted to change her name to "Lotus". Just Lotus.

So she took the legal steps (show you're not a felon, give the court a list of your creditors, etc.) and went to court to make her case to the judge.

She was nervous but she had a long, thought-out argument ready. Her case came up, the judge looked at the paperwork, nodded to the clerk, and it was a done deal. She never got to argue her case!

As long as you have a clean record, it's not a big deal.

Unless you get the jerk judge, I guess.

Monique

An analysis of what? As I said, it depends on what you want your unique name to be and how different it is from your current name. People change their names, I even forgot to mention all the Chinese people who adopt a Western name.

One of the criteria in the Netherlands is that you can change it easily if it's a common name, which makes sense. I know a number of males from the Czech Republic and they are all called Pavel, it led me to conclude that all Czech males carry the same name

Danger

That's because their birth certificates are filled out by a Czech-writing machine rather than by hand.

DaveC426913

:ba DUM bum tss:

chemisttree

UniqueJimmy is more unique, however; it's not nearly as unique as UniqueMonique.

AnTiFreeze3

Unique New York Unique New York Unique New York. The arsonist has oddly shaped feet. The human torch was denied a bank loan.

pa5tabear

This discussion isn't really going where I wanted it to go, so I'll try and be more direct.

I'm entertaining the idea of changing my last name. I'm fine with my first name, despite it being very common and generic. I would change my last name for the following reasons:

-I'm not proud of my father's actions and the last name is a constant reminder of him
-I don't like the sound of it that much. It's okay, but I can think of lots of names which I like the sound of much more. I assume other people might have similar aesthetic feelings towards it. I know I have like certain last names more than others.

AnTiFreeze3

This is your decision. If it helps you forget about your father, and you think that it will improve your life, then go ahead and do it. The feedback you're looking for, I presume, is that people will reassure you that this is the right thing to do, and that you'll be fine.

Humans have names so that we have something to call each other. If I walked up to you and you told me that your name was John Smith, or if you told me that your name was John Rodriguez, or John Alvarez, or John Carr, or anything, then I would think absolutely nothing of it. The only thought going through my mind is, "oh, when I see this guy again, I need to remember to call him John -----."

You clearly have reasons behind wanting to change your name that equate to something more than changing your name for namesake. If the pros outweigh the cons, then by all means, change your name.

Monique

No wonder the discussion is not going in the direction you want to if you omit such details in your first posts. I've given examples of friends changing their last name, which you haven't addressed. I really don't know why you need other people's opinion, it's your decision and you need to live with it.

SW VandeCarr

Since you can't decide on a new surname, why not just use your first name (which you seem to like)? Your name could just be, for example, Frank or Sarah depending on your gender. I see no reason why you must have a last name. If you do, just repeat your first name, like Major Major in the Joseph Heller novel "Catch 22". Actually Major Major's middle name was also Major and he was a major in the US Army, so his full ID was Major Major Major Major.

EDIT: A common first name can be an unusual last name. Consider US Congressman and (still) presidential candidate Ron Paul. I think the reason he got elected to Congress was his unusual last name (I can't think of any other reason unless you think the country was perfect in 1912). Now if he had changed his first name to Paul, I think he would have been president by now

chemisttree

1. "Unique" is not the same as "different from my father".
2. My wife changed her last name. She had a bit of trepidation initially but it wore off.

Good luck! I hope you find the man of your dreams!

nitsuj

Mine too, Justin is pronounced much different with a French accent than in English. (spell check looking for a Cap on english but not french)

That said, I personally find my name with a French accent to sound too feminine for my ego.

Danger

We could always just call you "Miss Bateman" instead.

nitsuj

I work at a business that includes a "Garden Center"....I had to google "miss Bateman", I assume reference to "a Rose by any other name...." &

"I tell ya life ain't easy for a boy named Sue!"

Funny note, more often than I like my name is misspelled "Justine".

Danger

I wish that I was that clever, but alas...
I've never heard of the flower and didn't know about your association with gardening. My reference was simply to the actress.
(I'll file that info away for use in future jokes, though.)