A good way to reduce confusion is to take y to be the origin: (0,0).
(It also keeps me from getting confused about whether "y" refers to a different point or the y-component of a single point!) Once you see a neighborhood of (0,0), all neighborhoods of other points look the same. It might also help to take

to be 1.
That way, for example, N
1((0,0)) using metric 1, the "usual" metric, is the set of points (x,y) such that x
2+ y
2< 1, the disk with center (0,0) and radius 1 (strictly speaking the neighborhood is
not a circle- the boundary of the neighborhood is a circle). All neighborhoods in that metric are disks.
With metric 2, we must have max(|x|,|y|)< 1. It boundary is given by max(|x|,|y|)= 1. If x< y, then that is just |y|= 1 so y= 1 or y= -1. Draw the two lines y= 1 and y= -1. If y< x, then that equation is just |x|=1 so x=1 or x=-1. Draw the two lines x= 1 and x= -1. Stare at that picture until it dawns on you!
With metric 3, we must have |x|+ |y|< 1. The boundary of that is |x|+ |y|= 1. Standard method of working with absolute values is to separate "positive" from "negative". If x and y are both positive (first quadrant), the equation is just x+ y= 1. Draw that line. If x and y are both negative, the equation is just -x- y= 1 or x+ y= -1. Draw that line.
I'll let you do the other two cases: x>0, y<0 and x<0, y>0. Draw those for lines and stare at the picture!