What Makes Staring at Others Rude?

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Discussion Overview

The discussion revolves around the social implications and perceptions of staring at others, particularly in the context of dating and interpersonal interactions. Participants explore various reasons for staring, personal experiences, and societal norms related to eye contact and attention.

Discussion Character

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Main Points Raised

  • Some participants suggest that staring can lead to being noticed, which may create discomfort.
  • Others express personal feelings of timidity and sensitivity that prevent them from staring.
  • A participant humorously comments on the predictability of men in relation to staring.
  • There is a mention of a personal rule regarding eye contact during dates, indicating its importance in social interactions.
  • Some participants discuss the use of sunglasses as a potential cover for staring, questioning their effectiveness.
  • One participant reflects on their dating experiences, noting a change in their approach to dating over time.
  • Humorous interpretations arise regarding the intentions behind staring, including playful speculation about looking at shoes or other distractions.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants express a variety of views on the appropriateness and implications of staring, with no clear consensus reached. The discussion includes both humorous and serious perspectives, indicating a mix of agreement on the discomfort of staring but disagreement on its motivations and social acceptability.

Contextual Notes

Some statements reflect personal anecdotes and subjective interpretations, which may not apply universally. The discussion lacks a formal framework for defining what constitutes "staring" and its social consequences.

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Why you shouldn't stare...

Because somebody might notice


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I can't judge him. I'd probably do the same thing :biggrin:.
 
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They show, I stare.

Actually, I'm too meek and timid and sensitive to stare.
 
What A Pair Of Hooters!
 
Actually I have to admit I was drawn to that guy's t-shirt first... its very green isn't it??
 
Men are so predictable. :rolleyes: (except for you son, yes, it is a VERY green shirt)

I had a rule to never to go out on a date with a guy that couldn't maintain eye contact with me.
 
He could've made it less obvious.
 
Actually i thought the sunglasses were a decent enough cover but maybe he was wearing them cos of the glowing green...
 
The_Professional said:
He could've made it less obvious.

Or more noticeable.
 
Evo said:
I had a rule to never...
'Had'? Meaning you don't anymore? Interesting... :biggrin:
 
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rathma said:
'Had'? Meaning you don't anymore? Interesting... :biggrin:
I guess I need to explain that huh? I don't date anymore. I haven't been on a date in 6 years. I just got tired of it.
 
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Hahaha. I never stare at girls eyes or anyone eyes when I talk to them... I just usual talk w/o noticing much of wtf is happening actually...
 
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:cool: Is the dude natural or gratuitous?
 
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What? He was just looking at her shoes. (Of course he was trying to see them down her shirt, past her belt and down her pant leg.) :biggrin: :eek: :biggrin:
 
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He was looking at a spider near the green shirt guy's foot :wink:
 
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