Is Treating 100 Classmates to a Lunar New Year Party Worth the Cost?

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Discussion Overview

The discussion revolves around the idea of organizing a Lunar New Year gathering for 100 classmates in Vietnam, focusing on the feasibility and appropriateness of treating everyone to a meal at a local restaurant. Participants explore the cultural and social implications of such an event, as well as the financial considerations involved.

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Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses a desire to treat all 100 classmates to a meal, noting that the cost is significantly lower in their area compared to the US.
  • Another participant suggests that it may be more appropriate for classmates to pay for themselves, questioning the social dynamics of one person treating a large group.
  • A participant reflects on personal values and the significance of the gathering, mentioning their family situation and desire to enjoy the moment while they can.
  • Several participants offer well-wishes for the gathering, emphasizing a supportive tone without directly addressing the cost or logistics.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants do not reach a consensus on whether treating all classmates is appropriate or feasible, with differing views on the social implications of such an act and the practicality of the suggestion.

Contextual Notes

The discussion includes personal reflections that may influence opinions, such as cultural values and individual circumstances, but does not resolve the financial or social considerations raised.

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Individuals interested in cultural celebrations, social dynamics of group gatherings, or those contemplating similar events may find this discussion relevant.

Khi Choy Xichdu
The Lunar New Year is approaching in my country, and I'm planning to celebrate the end of the year with my classmates. Since we haven't seen each other for a year, I thought it would be nice to organize a gathering at a local restaurant. The cost of everything in my area is significantly lower than in the US, ranging from 3 to 10 times cheaper. Considering this, I'm contemplating whether I should treat all 100 of my classmates to a meal. The total expense would amount to approximately $1000 - $2000, which is still less than the price of a flight ticket from the US to Vietnam.
What do you think?
 
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Why not just suggest the get-together to all of your classmates, and they can pay for themselves like a normal get-together. It seems like it would be a bit awkward for one class member to treat for all 100 others, unless you and your relatives own the restaurant or something.
 
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berkeman said:
Why not just suggest the get-together to all of your classmates, and they can pay for themselves like a normal get-together. It seems like it would be a bit awkward for one class member to treat for all 100 others, unless you and your relatives own the restaurant or something.
As a Buddhist, I hold deep reverence for all the opportunities bestowed upon me, including the chance to visit my classmates in Ho Chi Minh City with my wife on our annual journey from Da lat - Vietnam. Yet, mindful of my aging and ailing parents, I recognize that my future ability to embark on extensive travels may be limited. So I'd like to enjoy myself and have some fun while able.

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Hi, @Khi Choy Xichdu, have a nice meeting. I really want you to enjoy the gathering you have in mind.
Peace & ❤️
 
mcastillo356 said:
Hi, @Khi Choy Xichdu, have a nice meeting. I really want you to enjoy the gathering you have in mind.
Peace & ❤️
Thank you. My wife and I are traveling around the town too to look and feel the atmosphere of the New Year in this poor city that is always crowded with people and bikes. :smile:
 
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