What you want is not possible. First of all we don't know what the ultimate origin of anything is. Our theories describe the way the universe works in terms of models that are heavily involved with mathematics. Without knowing the math behind the theory it is not possible to completely understand what a theory describes. Without knowing the math any explanation is a watered down shadow prone to oversimplification, misinterpretation, and simply not being believed.
It's obvious that your knowledge of even basic physics, let alone cosmology, is extremely lacking and you are in dire need of a better education if you want to seriously argue anything having to do with physics. Put simply, if you don't believe us, learn the theory. And if you won't do that, go somewhere else because you are wasting everyone's time here, including your own.