Okay, it was a typo, i got it correct indices on my notes
so let me retype it
\begin{align}
\delta \Gamma_{ab}^d &= \frac{1}{2} \left( - g_{qb} \, \nabla_a \, \delta g^{dq} - g_{qa} \, \nabla_b \, \delta g^{dq} + g_{ra} \, g_{sb} \, \nabla^d \, \delta g^{rs} \right) \nonumber \\...