Bowdoin College Students Offered Counseling Over Sombrero Party

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The discussion centers around the reactions to a tequila-themed birthday party at Bowdoin College where students wore small sombrero hats, leading to the university offering counseling to those affected. Participants also reference related incidents at Emory University involving chalk messages supporting Donald Trump, which triggered protests. The conversation explores themes of political correctness, student reactions, and broader societal implications.

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  • Some participants argue that the reactions to the sombrero party and the chalk messages at Emory are indicative of an overreaction to perceived offenses, questioning the ability of students to cope with differing opinions.
  • Others express frustration with what they see as a trend of political correctness that stifles free expression and trivializes legitimate concerns.
  • A few participants suggest that the emotional responses from students may reflect deeper societal issues regarding how individuals handle conflicting viewpoints.
  • There are references to specific incidents, such as protests against controversial speakers and the emotional distress caused by certain performances, indicating a broader cultural debate about sensitivity and expression.
  • Some participants highlight the absurdity of the situation, comparing it to exaggerated reactions in popular culture and questioning the seriousness of the claims made by those who felt threatened.

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Participants generally express disagreement regarding the appropriateness of the responses to the sombrero party and the chalk messages. While some see the reactions as justified, others view them as excessive and indicative of a troubling trend in higher education.

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There are unresolved questions about the extent of the emotional impact on students and the motivations behind the protests and counseling offers. The discussion reflects a variety of perspectives on political correctness and its implications for free speech and student well-being.

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It turns out that the news sources did not verify before posting and are only partially true, see the snopes post below by Tobias. Thanks Tobias! So, here are the real reports - for the Emory Event, here is Newsweek's report which is more accurate.

EMORY STUDENTS EXPLAIN WHY ‘TRUMP 2016’ CHALK MESSAGES TRIGGERED PROTEST

When the words “Trump 2016” and other chalked messages supporting the Republican presidential front-runner appeared Monday around the Emory University campus in Atlanta, students say they immediately felt threatened. Within hours, they launched a protest.

“We are in pain,” one student said at a rally, according to The Emory Wheel, a student newspaper. “I don’t deserve to feel afraid at my school,” a second student reportedly said.

<snip>

“I legitimately feared for my life,” a freshman who identifies as Latino told The Daily Beast. Another student told the publication, “Some of us were expecting shootings. We feared walking alone.”
http://www.newsweek.com/emory-trump-chalk-protests-440618


Students offered counselling over small sombrero hats at tequila-themed birthday party
A university offered counselling to students “injured and affected” by a group of classmates who wore small sombrero hats to a tequila-themed birthday party.

The row, which erupted at Bowdoin College, a private liberal arts college in the US state of Maine, is being seen as the latest instance of a new mood of censorious political correctness sweeping university campuses on both sides of the Atlantic.
more...

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/w...t-tequila-themed-birthday-party-a6915521.html
 
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Evo said:
This is getting ridiculous.
I can always find something more ridiculous in this world. :-p

But yeah, this one... this one deserves a badge on the ridi-scale. :nb) (ridiculous scale)

Wait until I cosplay in their campuses with my Victorian Era clothes and see how many become offended and affected by PTSD because of it. o0) If they would put the poor victims in a mental hospital with meds to treat them we would see for how long they can keep their traumatic charade.
charade - an absurd pretense intended to create a pleasant or respectable appearance.
 
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If they're being taught not to cope with or learn how to live with things they just don't like and aren't an actual threat, how are they going to handle real life once they graduate? This just seems so wrong to me. What are these uni's and colleges teaching our children?
 
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The whole PC-thing has been getting on my nerves for a while.
Everytime I read about such an absurd over-reaction I think of a song (almost 20 years ago, 1999) by the Dutch punk band Heideroosjes.



Lyrics
 
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Kitten in early stages of UFO abduction.
 
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Does PF offer counseling as well?

Because I can't stop thinking of that kitty now.
 
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It doesn't seem to be quite as bad as the articles suggest (which should probably be obvious).

http://www.snopes.com/emory-students-trump-graffiti/

Just anti-Trump protests in response and the sombrero thing seems overblown too. Possibly still an overreaction by some students--we don't really know the story--but not a case of administration setting up emergency counseling for scared little babies.
 
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JorisL said:
Does PF offer counseling as well? ...
I hope! :oldsurprised:
 
Tobias Funke said:
It doesn't seem to be quite as bad as the articles suggest (which should probably be obvious).

http://www.snopes.com/emory-students-trump-graffiti/

Just anti-Trump protests in response and the sombrero thing seems overblown too. Possibly still an overreaction by some students--we don't really know the story--but not a case of administration setting up emergency counseling for scared little babies.
It's still pretty bad
an e-mail sent by student government representatives (i.e. students, not adult faculty or administrators) offering support for events, not counseling:

That being said, by nature of the fact that for a significant portion of our student population, the messages represent particularly bigoted opinions, policies, and rhetoric directed at populations represented at Emory University, we would like to express our concern regarding the values espoused by the messages displayed, and our sympathy for the pain experienced by members of our community...

It is clear to us that these statements are triggering for many of you. As a result, both College Council and the Student Government Association pledge to stand in solidarity with those communities who feel threatened by this incident and to help navigate the student body through it and the environment of distrust and unease it has created.

To that end, Emergency Funds within the College Council monetary policy were created to provide time-sensitive funds during circumstances involving discrimination based on race, gender, sexual orientation, religion, and such funds are available to any student organization looking to sponsor events in response to this incident.
 
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That is just TOO CUTE!
 
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Evo said:
It's still pretty bad

Yeah, that quote does seem like a parody you'd find on Portlandia if it's really only over some "Trump 2016" chalkings. It's what you'd expect to read after finding a black mannequin hanging from a rope or something. There's either more to the story or I bet most of the students who just wanted to know when the anti-Trump rally was laughed and rolled their eyes when they read the email.
 
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At my school we had a speaker come who is known to be controversial, and imo a little nuts. But a group of students who attended the meeting had a similar reaction to the articles above and protested his speech to the student government, who kindly read them the first amendment and told them to be on their way. On top of that one student's family who was live tweeting at the event got doxed because they supported his world view. I feel like this isn't just a millennial thing though. This is the same mentality that a lot of angry people have about competing ideas. Most of them up to this point have just lashed out in punches instead of curling up in a ball. For what it's worth most of the students at my school think the kids who got upset were full of it.
 
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It both saddened and distressed me to hear a young Japanese woman who was outraged by a performance of The Mikado by Gilbert and Sullivan which is obviously a satire of British government and culture of the period and which was deeply influenced by the Japonism then near its height. If one walks around with a pile of chips on one's shoulder one is certain to get bent.

I think the present fad of removing statues of Confederate "heros" is also misguided. Rather then be removed they should be augmented by statues that depict the evil they defended and plaques that explain that evil and explicitly condemn their uncritical lionization. Yes some were great generals, that does not make them good human beings and we Southerners need to be reminded of that, it seems.
 
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This political correctness thing has gotten out of control. Ok, I understand why it was created in the first place, but now we got to the other extreme when you can't express legitimate facts or have simple fun. Everyone gets offended for something.

einswine said:
I think the present fad of removing statues of Confederate "heros" is also misguided. Rather then be removed they should be augmented by statues that depict the evil they defended and plaques that explain that evil and explictyly condemn their uncritical lionization. Yes some were great generals, that does not make them good human beings and we Southerners need to be reminded of that, it seems.

Who are these Confederate heros?
 
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Lets start with R. E. Lee. The school attended by my mother in the early 1900s was named after him.
 
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einswine said:
Lets start with R. E. Lee. The school attended by my mother in the early 1900s was named after him.

Oh, now I've googled him and see that it's about American Civil war. I don't know much about it, only that it was about slavery,
 
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Evo said:
This is getting ridiculous. There was another incident recently with students crying and terrorized because a guest at their college was reading from a book at a designated location. They did not have to attend or listen to it.

more...

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/w...t-tequila-themed-birthday-party-a6915521.html

And another

more...

http://nation.foxnews.com/2016/03/25/students-reportedly-frightened-pain-after-seeing-trump-2016-signs-campus

You know what's sad? Major news channels like the one you listed distorting and lying in their news in order to gain views/reads. Is it so hard to do some basic facts checking? The snopes site seems to be able to do it. This junk-journalism pisses me off.
 
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einswine said:
Lets start with R. E. Lee. The school attended by my mother in the early 1900s was named after him.
A friend of mine used to wonder why Robert E. Lee had a Chinese name.
 
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Sophia said:
Oh, now I've googled him and see that it's about American Civil war. I don't know much about it, only that it was about slavery,

The real horror is that many Southerners say they don't believe that.
 
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In case anybody didn't get @micromass's reference, here's the Snopes article:

http://www.snopes.com/bowdoin-mini-sombrero-controversy/

According to Snopes anyway, the "news" articles are Mostly False.

WHAT'S TRUE: In February 2016, a controversy arose at Bowdoin College over cultural sensitivity and a tequila party; Bowdoin officials stated that subsequent harassment (not sombreros) were the cause of the controversy.

WHAT'S FALSE: Students were offered counseling over the presence of "mini sombreros."

WHAT'S Undetermined: The specifics of the controversy, due to considerations of confidentiality.
Edit: I see @Tobias Funke already posted a Snopes link back in post #7. I missed that the first time. Although that Snopes link was about the Trump with chalk story, and this one is about the Sombrero and Tequila story.
 
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einswine said:
The real horror is that many Southerners say they don't believe that.
That's really strange... How can they deny it?
Building statues of people who were for slavery seems very politically incorrect to me. Doesn't matter if they were good generals.
 
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Sophia said:
Building statues of people who were for slavery seems very politically incorrect to me

You do know that would include most historical figures right? Slavery was a really common practice in human history with shockingly little opposition.
 
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Every time I see this thread I laugh when reading the word sombrero in the title. It sounds funny when reading it in the title. :oldlaugh:

Mad Hatter
says: ♪ You could wear a sombrero... ♪
 
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micromass said:
You do know that would include most historical figures right? Slavery was a really common practice in human history with shockingly little opposition.
I read that about native Americans the other day.
I was kind of stunned.

wiki said:
Traditions of Native American slavery
Many Native American tribes practiced some form of slavery before the European introduction of African slavery into North America; but none exploited slave labor on a large scale.
...

Anyways, before I go off into my usual; "Oh yeah! Well I've had 5 conversations about this over the last year, and let me tell you!" schpiel, I decided to look up what an expert had to say about this:

Political Correctness Gone Mad
Emotional thinking and Folie à Plusieurs ["madness of many"] in the 21st century
Posted Sep 29, 2015

Introduction:

If the reports are to be believed, many Millennial students (Born after 1980) on college campuses have become “infected” with the mental contagion of emotional thinking or pathological thinking judging from a recent article appearing in the September 2015 edition of Atlantic Magazine. The cover story has a headline shouting “Better Watch What You Say: How the New Political Correctness is Ruining Education."
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Fascinating article. I'd love to quote the whole thing.
 
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Sophia said:
That's really strange... How can they deny it?

Just do it.

Late in life I learned that all this stuff about evidence, logic, and truth has nothing to do with the beliefs of the great majority of people. Even smart people. They just believe what they feel like believing, which is usually what their friends believe.

It makes sense. If you stopped believing it and said so, then you'd lose all of your friends.

My friends from childhood have narrow beliefs. I just conform. They aren't going to change no matter what, so why make trouble? I don't.

Sometimes I wonder whether anyone really believes what they are saying. Maybe they are all saying it because everyone else is saying it and they are afraid they'll get in trouble if they deviate. Conformity is rewarded.

Corollary: Falsehood sells better than truth. Falsehood is more useful as support for self-interested programs. Besides, if it's true, you don't need to pay anyone to promote it.
 
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micromass said:
You do know that would include most historical figures right? Slavery was a really common practice in human history with shockingly little opposition.

Suppose you didn't enslave others. Then those who did would become more powerful than you, and might enslave you. So you'd enslave others as the lesser of two evils.

Suppose you didn't colonize others. Then those who did would become more powerful than you, and colonize you.

That's how the British Empire got started. Spain and Holland tried to colonize England, and would have done it if not for a big storm. England built a navy to defend itself. Then it colonized countries to, among other things, pay for the navy.
 
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I think the whole point of the British Empire was to find something better to eat than boiled beef and haggis.
 
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Sophia said:
That's really strange... How can they deny it?
For decades people in the North were taught that Lincoln initiated war with the South specifically to end slavery. In fact, that's wrong: his purpose was to prevent the Southern states from withdrawing from the United States and forming a new country. But, why did they want to withdraw?

Overall, the Northern population was growing much more quickly than the Southern population, which made it increasingly difficult for the South to continue to influence the national government. By the time the 1860 election occurred, the heavily agricultural southern states as a group had fewer Electoral College votes than the rapidly industrializing northern states. Abraham Lincoln was able to win the 1860 Presidential election without even being on the ballot in ten Southern states. Southerners felt a loss of federal concern for Southern pro-slavery political demands, and their continued domination of the Federal government was threatened. This political calculus provided a very real basis for Southerners' worry about the relative political decline of their region due to the North growing much faster in terms of population and industrial output.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Origins_of_the_American_Civil_War

So, while the South tried to withdraw from the union to protect its slave based economy, the North was actually only invading to preserve the Union, and not particularly to end slavery. In that sense a Southener can claim, "The War of Northern Aggression (The Civil War) was not about slavery."
 
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Sophia said:
That's really strange... How can they deny it?
Building statues of people who were for slavery seems very politically incorrect to me. Doesn't matter if they were good generals.
The history and politics of the U.S. in the first half of the 19th century are more complex than just the issue of slavery.

Many who fought on the supposedly "pro-slavery" side never owned any slaves (which were quite expensive to purchase and maintain), just as some who fought on the "anti-slavery" side did own slaves.

Robert E. Lee's father died when the boy was 11, and his mother had to raise her son and five other children by herself. Lee's father had done time in debtor's prison before his death and could not be considered prosperous enough by any means to be a slaveholder. Lee's wealth was obtained later in life after he married Martha Washington's great granddaughter Mary Anna Custis, and through her, came to own the estate at Arlington (now Arlington National Cemetery) and the slaves which worked the estate after the death of his father in law.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_E._Lee

On the other hand, Lee's nemesis from late in the war, U.S. Grant, also married up, and his wife's family was rather wealthy and prominent in pre-war Missouri, sufficiently prosperous to own several slaves. For a time, Grant himself owned a slave with whom he worked a small farm, but Grant freed his slave just before the war broke out when the farm failed and he had to seek other employment to support his family.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ulysses_S._Grant

Hindsight is always 20-20 and is a rather superficial means of judging the past by present day standards.
 
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