Hello everyone! I have a visit day for a school coming up that they booked my hotel and flight for. I was initially interested in the program, but my partner recently received a dream job offer in Boston. I have been offered a spot at two PhD programs there, so I'll likely pick one of those in order to let them pursue this opportunity. My visit day is in a week at this other school that isn't in Boston, but there's basically no chance that I'm going to accept my offer to go to that school now. Should I inform them of this so that they can cancel my accomodations(hotel and flight) and potentially get some portion of the money back? I can also just go to the visit day and not tell them of my plans to deny my offer soon after, but it feels a bit bad to take their money.