Getting angry at students who post without attempting first

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I have a problem. I'm capable of helping many of the students here with their problems, but at the same time, I get very angry whenever a student posts a problem that they didn't even attempt first and I could care less about helping them even if they show work after someone gives them a hint.

I think my main problem is that since I suffered through physics, let them suffer, and I get great joy to watch them struggle with a problem like I once did. Can somebody help me?
 

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I currently tutor a girl in mathematics. She basically needs me whenever she has a new homework assignment that she needs help with. My tactic is to ask her how they approach the problem — give her a bit of time to think. If she is truly stumped, I give her a hint: something I think might help her understand what to do. Then I ask her again, how she would approach the problem.

In the end, if she cannot figure out how to do anything, I lead her through the first problem, and go over it enough so that she gets how to work it. I let her do the rest of the problems, while I check to make sure she is doing things correctly. If she does not understand how to get something, I help her with that.

As tutors, our job obviously is not doing someone's homework for them. Concepts matter a lot more than homework problems.
 


Hi there,

I can understand where you're coming from. It can be frustrating to see students not putting in the effort to solve their own problems before asking for help. However, it's important to remember that everyone learns at their own pace and some may not have the same level of understanding or resources as others.

Instead of getting angry, try to approach the situation with empathy. Remember that you were once in their shoes and needed help too. You can still offer your expertise and guidance, but try to do so in a constructive and supportive manner.

Also, keep in mind that helping others can be a rewarding experience. It's always satisfying to see someone else succeed with your assistance. So, try to focus on the positive aspect of helping rather than the negative.

Lastly, it's important to let go of any bitterness or resentment towards your past struggles with physics. Holding onto those negative feelings will only hinder your own growth and development. Instead, use your experiences to motivate and inspire others to overcome their challenges.

I hope this helps. Keep up the good work and keep spreading your knowledge and passion for physics!