ASA, SAS, SSS, etc, aren't to find that triangles are *similar* - they are for showing the triangles are *congruent* (same size)
To know the triangles are similar, you only need to know that two of the corresponding pairs of angles are congruent (because it follows that since the sum of the angles in a triangle is 180 degrees, the 3rd pair of corresponding angles would also have to be congruent.) Thus, AA is all that's needed for *similar* triangles.
Obviously, angle A is congruent to angle A (reflexive property)
You can do either or both of the other pair of corresponding angles just as you mentioned - it has to do with the parallel lines. "When a pair of parallel lines are cut by a transversal, the corresonding angles are congruent."