Originally posted by olde drunk
The definition I intended was that reality is the sum total of our experience.
The total of our experience includes dreams, illusions, hallucinations, as well as abstract thoughts. Most people don't consider those things as part of reality.
What we see, feel(sense), touch, do and think is the reality we EXPERIENCE. Is our total experience separate from, and yet, included within the mass reality that we share.
How can something be separate from and yet included within? You mean, like the internal organs of a fish are separate from the ocean and yet included within the ocean? If that is the case, I can't see the relevance of the question. You may choose to classify things any way you like; you can see the ocean as made of water, salt, and fish, or as made of "watersaltfish", or whatever you like it. How you define it is not important, the important thing is that the statements you make are consistent with your definitions. If they aren't then no one can understand you, not even yourself.
Is the 'shared reality' a complex mixture of all our individual realities blended into a mass experience??
No, there is definitely more to it. There are things which happen regardless of our will, and things which happened when no one was around to experience it. That's why we call it "reality". Otherwise we would call it "mass delusion", or "mass dream" to sound better.
i submit that atoms, molecules, matter seen from another demension might simply be bits of energy interacting with each other. please note i said 'might'.
Again, how you define it is not important. If "bits of energy" turns out to be fully equivalent to "atoms, molecules, matter seen from another dimension", then you would be correct, but then you wouldn't be saying anything new.
asking questions is easy. are there any answers??
Asking questions might be easy, but asking meaningful questions can be extremely difficult sometimes. If you study the evolution of human thought, you'll see that most of the greatest intellectual advances were achieved by realizing that a seemingly difficult question could not be answered because it was meaningless. Rephrase it, and the answer pops up right before your eyes.