I think it's fair to say that the processes that are of most interest are the ones that have the fastest rates. There are states of Oxygen 16 that have the right energy to be obtained from Nitrogen 15 and a proton, they just spit out a gamma ray, but they are just less likely to happen because if you spit out an alpha particle instead, you have a higher momentum particle for the same energy (it's less relativistic), so you get access to more momentum states. There's also different internal processes involved, so they all affect the branching ratio. This means there are just more ways the processes with a higher branching ratio can happen. I'll bet it's not at all uncommon for three alpha particles to come together but then fly apart again before they release a gamma ray and drop into a bound state, it's just that we don't count that as a kind of reaction so it just doesn't show up. But of the reactions that change the nature of the nucleus, the ones that happen the most ways are the ones that we need to track.