"Stop trying to win"? I don't understand the logicity behind this statement. Do you think this is a game, or compitition?
I have to ask you more questions because I won't understand your stance untill you explain it to me, and as you seem unwilling to just spill it all out I'll ask you questions to see how your came to your position.
What do you mean by "All one has to do is believe" that sounds very ambiguous and psuedo-scientific.