What characteristics make a good friend?

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The discussion centers around the characteristics that define a "good" friend, exploring various traits and qualities that contribute to friendship. Participants reflect on personal experiences and societal observations regarding friendship in contemporary contexts.

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Main Points Raised

  • One participant suggests that good friends should possess qualities such as kindness, helpfulness, and trustworthiness, questioning what specific criteria define a good friend.
  • Another participant argues that good friends should have the courage to point out mistakes and be considerate, emphasizing the importance of sharing happiness and sadness while providing a sense of security when sharing secrets.
  • A more humorous perspective is presented, where a "true friend" is described in whimsical terms, including references to cigarettes and dolphins, contrasting with more serious views on friendship.
  • One participant expresses a metaphorical view, stating that a life without good friends is akin to a well without water, implying that friendship is essential for a fulfilling life.
  • Another participant compares good friends to dogs, highlighting traits such as unconditional love, empathy, and joy in companionship, suggesting that such qualities are rare in human friendships.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants express a range of views on what constitutes a good friend, with no clear consensus on specific characteristics. Some emphasize emotional support and honesty, while others provide humorous or metaphorical interpretations of friendship.

Contextual Notes

Some statements reflect subjective opinions about the difficulty of finding true friends in a materialistic society, indicating a potential limitation in the discussion's scope regarding societal influences on friendship.

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What is a "good" friend ?


A good friend shall possesses what characteristics? Kindness, helpfullnes, trustworthy?

What criteria?

Do you think you're a good friend to some people?

 
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Good friends should have courage to point out your mistakes, not necessarily be kind but need to be considerate. They should be able to share your happiness and sadness, and you should have sense of secruity when sharing your secrets with them.

Personally, I don't think it is easy to find a true friend nowadays coz people become more and more selfish in this materialistic world. This is my subjective opinion and I don't mean to offend anyone. :smile:
 
A true friend:

a) Always has cigarettes "going spare".

or

b) Is a dolphin who doesn't mind you grabbing its fin and tagging along for merry aquatic adventures, usually involving smugglers.

All others are charlatans who seek to carve out your heart with your own cutlery, defecate in it, then feed you it.

At least...that's what my mother told me
 
a life without good friend is like a well without water --DEAD.
 
You've probably heard the saying, "A dog is man's best friend." It has been used so much that it has become a cliche, but it does describe a good friend.

A dog is happy when you are happy, sad when you are sad. (Your happiness means more to them then theirs.)

A dog senses when you are troubled without a word from you and tries to make you feel better.

A dog gets so exited to see you arrive that their whole body shakes with happiness (beginning with a tail wag when they hear the car coming down the street and ends with all four feet bouncing off the floor when you walk in the door).

A dog forgives you for being angry with her and is only happy that you love her again.

A dog gives unconditional love. He would love for you to return his love, but if you don't, he loves you anyway.

That kind of a friend is rare to find in a person.
 

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