Ok, this is fairly trivial.
Assume that some vector

(dependent on some independent variables) has unit size irrespective of the values of the independent variables, i.e:
Then, labeling an independent variable as

, we get by differentiating (1) wrt. to that variable:

, i.e, the derivatives of the unit vector are orthogonal to it!
Thus, starting out with the radial vector,

, we perform the two differentiations here:

and:
where the appropriate forms of the unit vectors

have been indicated.