RUTA said:
It's possible to have a distant object be brighter than a closer object, e.g., the Sun is much brighter than this computer screen. Likewise the angle subtended by an object doesn't discriminate relative spatial distance. How do you envision relating distance and interaction? And, how do you see your approach giving a Lorentz invariant result, since it can't give a definite spatial separation and be Lorentz invariant?
It is the light which we feel and the light which is then by definition "close". Chains of propagating effect are the meter sticks (and the clocks) of our universe.
Then again the sun IS close in the frame near that of the propagating light, that is to say the events of emission and absorption are distance near zero given the single photon carrier of the propagating effect.
The sun is also intimately close on the scale of the other stars in the universe. But we can also see that on our scale it is big by how it effects so many other systems near us, the light reflecting off the moon, and the planets, their very orbits, tell us that the sun is both big and (relatively) near. Then the (also relative) distance of the sun is to an extent the ratio of its affect on us and the scale of its effect on things near and far to us. This I think is quantifiable at least to the point of ordering which gives us topological structure.
What after all is a measuring rod but a rigid solid, e.g. a condensate of strongly coupled component atoms. The lengths are essentially measured by counting blocks of those atoms and thus the number of interactional links between the ends of the rods.
As we refine our description of interacting phenomena we however (lately) replace the rigid measuring rod with light signals and clocks.
What then is a clock but a series of "tick" events each causing the next and being caused by the previous.
The nullness of space-time distance between emission-absorption events points to that as the elementary unit of measurement, the --by definition-- invariant phenomenon by which all others are given relative scale.
In formulating any operationally meaningful definitions in the context of science we start with the primaries of observations
vis a vis causally interacting with one's environment. It is sensible then that all other concepts, including metric distance and time are derivative of causal connection. The mystery to be solved is rather the extent to which mutually interacting systems either accidentally or necessarily resolve themselves into the space-time-field structure we are able to perceive and map with our theories. In doing that I think causality is necessarily local in that localization is necessarily defined causally.
I cannot help but think rejecting local causality in order to preserve a notion of objective reality is backwards.
[EDIT: Ruta, I'm not sure I fully addressed your question. I haven't tried to make the idea formal and quantifiable. More heuristic as I've expressed above. Let me consider it for a bit and see if it
can be given a more formal, rigorous encoding... possibly the attempt will show the idea invalid. It should be a useful exercise.]