The thread discusses the emotional impact of a student being ostracized by friends due to perceived competition and jealousy related to academic performance. The focus is on personal experiences, feelings of isolation, and the search for genuine friendships in an academic environment, particularly in the context of studying physics and engineering.
Participants generally agree that the OP's friends have acted unfairly and that jealousy can distort friendships. However, there is no consensus on the best approach for the OP to take moving forward or how to navigate these social dynamics.
The discussion reflects a range of personal experiences and emotional responses, with some participants suggesting that the OP could have communicated differently about their grades, while others emphasize that the blame lies with the friends for their jealousy and lack of communication.
Students navigating complex social dynamics in academic settings, particularly those studying STEM fields, may find this discussion relevant as it addresses issues of competition, friendship, and emotional well-being.
fillipeano said:Well people who do that to you should not be considered your friends.
Surround yourself with people you want to be like. If you surround yourself with fun and smart people, you will be more likely to be like your friends, fun and smart.
M-quest said:Quite a long story thr,n u do not need such shallow friends