madness said:
Anarchists do desire a stateless society.
Which I assert makes them irrational as that is an impossibility short of annihilating all but one person on the planet.
The monopoly of violence lies in the police and army.
again that is only a monopoly if every member of society is in the police or in the army.
I cannot obtain a monopoly on the production of gold simply by declaring that I own all the gold mines. I must use force either through the state via enforcement of contracts or by my own bloody ruthless power to control all the gold mines and prevent anyone else from taking gold out of them. The state cannot eliminate non state sponsored violence. They can only make it illegal. So "monopoly on violence" is the wrong phrase. Try again.
Anarchism is not meant to be a transition phase and is not meant to be chaotic.
And I've made no statement about what an Anarchist intends. I'm making statements of fact about the nature of reality as it applies to the definition of Anarchism as the goal of as stateless society. The instant you eliminate the existing state you eliminate the state's suppression of organized use of force by other factions (e.g. street gangs and vigilante groups) and they will instantly become new states at war until a new equilibrium occurs. There is no avoiding the chaos and transitional nature of anarchy as defined by the elimination of the state.
Anarchists such as Chomsky rather advocate direct grass roots democracy, with the power spread evenly the heirarchical structure abolished.
Again what they advocate and what is possible do not necessarily have non-empty intersections. If Chomsky advocates direct grass roots democracy he is advocating a form of state and thus not a stateless society. That is unless he is advocating democracy without means of enforcement in which case what does the rapist care that people vote rape is illegal if there is no means to enforce that law.
The hazards of a direct democracy were very well outlined back when the founding fathers argued out the form of government the US would use. Who cares how people vote if there is no enforcement. Who protects the individual from being voted as tomorrows dinner if there is enforcement? And thus why should I hold any respect for what Chomsky advocates.
There have been functioning examples of anarchist societies (such as much of civil war Spain), which were highly ordered and large in scale.
Note the example you give was a transition period when the major power factions were fighting for dominance and so the smaller power factions i.e. small communities, could function as micro-states. Clearly once the fighting ended they did not long stay independent. But I still argue that all this means is that the state devolved to very small scale micro-states.
But anarchy does not mean putting anarchists in charge. They become the state. The critical premise of the anarchist is that spontaneous order forms from free individuals acting rationally (which is an invalid assumption) and that reason will in all circumstances preclude the preemptive use of force (again not a valid assumption).
As for the rest of your post, I think if you replace state with grass roots democracy which an individual is free to participate in or leave then there should be no problems.
So if the community votes to confiscate your crop and your farmland and distribute it, you are free to leave? What if you decide to stay? How is either case not a problem?
State enforced collectivism is NOT anarchy even if that state is a small village and if that state's decisions are arrived at via "grass roots democracy". Enforcement, even if that enforcement is all the yea-sayers in the democracy acting in concert, is "the state" whether those acting wish to call themselves a state or call themselves anarchists. They are acting in concert using the power of their numbers and using the authority of their vote. The state is always the adjudicator of its own authority. The state is a group of individuals acting through some agreement as to how and when force is to be applied.
Now if in your understanding my scenario is not anarchism I point out that is is a scenario common to "grass roots democracies" that emerged in various socialist revolutions of history. If in fact it is not anarchism then I point out it is yet another example of the instability of true anarchy.
If you claim it is anarchy then I say you are just trying to pass off your own version of state as a wolf in sheep's clothing.
I think your best bet is to define anarchy as an asymptotic horizon used as a direction (like colder) instead of as a goal (absolute zero). One could then argue as Libertarians do that we should move towards less state involvement i.e. toward anarchy (to which I agree) instead of
to anarchy= no state (which I assert is operationally meaningless). But such arguments are only valid in the context of where we are (or rather what the nature of the state is) here and now. One may presume that there is some ideal point of minimum state action but that point may change due to circumstances such as a crisis.
But ultimately how does your ideal anarchist society prevent the violent takeover by a group of dedicated evangelical "statests"? You can invoke Gandhi but he merely shamed the British into realizing they were oppressors and not beneficent paternal rulers. They gave India independence because their ego demanded it. Had Gandhi been dealing with the Romans he'd have been crucified in short order along with his followers. You may bring up Spain but again that was a brief period when many factions were braced against each other fighting for who would become the next State. It hardly constitutes an existing "anarchistic society" dealing with a single determined power faction deciding to take over.
The best, most accurate scenario I can think of to describe the type of anarchy you seem to advocate is the Mexican village in the movie
the Magnificent Seven only without the Hollywood Heroes coming to the rescue.