I really liked spivak's calculus, as far as textbooks go. Depends on what math you already know, though.
But I guess it's really a matter of opinion, for the lectures too. I learn better from reading, in general, so I usually read the book an if I come across something I can't get on my own, i start looking for an online lecture.
The MIT lectures have been a great help, but half the time I have to pause the video and go look up (sometimes even watch a whole other lecture on) something that the professor says, because they've already covered that at some point in the curriculum and only mention it briefly. Not that this is always a bad thing, though.
So sometimes the MIT lectures can be a headache to get through. I don't know what level the 18.01 MIT lectures are at, but if you decide to use those it may help to use the same book as them:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0070576424/?tag=pfamazon01-20
There's used copies for $60 on there, or I'm sure it's at the local library.