Can I cancel a physics PhD visit day, after they've booked my flight?

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Discussion Overview

The discussion revolves around the ethical considerations and implications of canceling a visit day for a PhD program after travel arrangements have been made. Participants explore the responsibilities of the prospective student in light of new opportunities and the potential impact on the university's resources.

Discussion Character

  • Debate/contested
  • Meta-discussion

Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses concern about the ethical implications of attending the visit day without informing the university of their changed plans, suggesting it may be better to cancel and allow others the opportunity.
  • Another participant emphasizes that admissions staff prefer to know about a candidate's intentions as soon as possible, which could benefit other applicants on waiting lists.
  • Several participants advocate for formally withdrawing the application to free up the slot for another candidate, highlighting the importance of not holding onto a position that could be better utilized by someone else.
  • There is a discussion about the financial implications of cancellation, with one participant suggesting that the university may not be able to refund the flight, while another reassures that business travel often has more flexible cancellation policies.
  • One participant reflects on their own decision to withdraw after considering the advice given, indicating a sense of discomfort about canceling but ultimately agreeing with the group's perspective.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants generally agree on the importance of informing the university about the change in plans and the ethical responsibility to withdraw the application. However, there is some disagreement regarding the emotional difficulty of canceling and the financial aspects of the travel arrangements.

Contextual Notes

Participants express uncertainty about the refund policies for flights and accommodations, indicating that these may vary and are not straightforward. The discussion also reflects differing personal values regarding commitment and responsibility in the context of graduate admissions.

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Hello everyone! I have a visit day for a school coming up that they booked my hotel and flight for. I was initially interested in the program, but my partner recently received a dream job offer in Boston. I have been offered a spot at two PhD programs there, so I'll likely pick one of those in order to let them pursue this opportunity. My visit day is in a week at this other school that isn't in Boston, but there's basically no chance that I'm going to accept my offer to go to that school now. Should I inform them of this so that they can cancel my accomodations(hotel and flight) and potentially get some portion of the money back? I can also just go to the visit day and not tell them of my plans to deny my offer soon after, but it feels a bit bad to take their money.
 
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The moral thing is to contact them with exactly what you told us here.

But it's hard to say no to a free vacation!
 
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Yes, just tell them where things stand. It's not going to offend anyone if you cancel on them.

In general graduate admissions people prefer to know where things stand sooner rather than later. There may be some students on a waiting list that they can make a secondary offer to once they know you're not coming.
 
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I agree with what was said here, but I would take it one step further - withdraw you application for admission. You're not just holding on to a few hundred bucks, but you're holding on to a slot someone else can use, Let someone else have it.
 
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Vanadium 50 said:
I agree with what was said here, but I would take it one step further - withdraw you application for admission. You're not just holding on to a few hundred bucks, but you're holding on to a slot someone else can use, Let someone else have it.
Oh yes certainly. I withdrew last night when I told them that I was likely going to another program for the reason stated in my post. It just felt weird cancelling on them since I doubt they'll be able to refund the flight, and I said I would go. But I think everyone here is right
 
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PhysPaig said:
Oh yes certainly. I withdrew last night when I told them that I was likely going to another program for the reason stated in my post. It just felt weird cancelling on them since I doubt they'll be able to refund the flight, and I said I would go. But I think everyone here is right
It's great that you have a conscience, but don't fret about the airfare. You're thinking in terms of rock-bottom vacation fares with strict refund policies upon cancellation. But business trips seldom are booked that way, since cancellations tend to be more frequent.

Regardless, the university would waste even more money (and people's time) if you didn't cancel. So keep that in perspective.
 
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