Decoherence is a particular type of interaction:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quantum_decoherence
The original system's wavefunction can be expanded in many different ways as a sum of elements in a quantum superposition. Each expansion corresponds to a projection of the wave vector onto a basis. The basis can be chosen at will. Let us choose an expansion where the resulting basis elements interact with the environment in an element-specific way. Such elements will—with overwhelming probability—be rapidly separated from each other by their natural unitary time evolution along their own independent paths. After a very short interaction, there is almost no chance of any further interference. The process is effectively
irreversible. The different elements effectively become "lost" from each other in the expanded phase space created by coupling with the environment; in phase space, this decoupling is monitored through the
Wigner quasi-probability distribution. The original elements are said to have
decohered. The environment has effectively selected out those expansions or decompositions of the original state vector that decohere (or lose phase coherence) with each other. This is called "environmentally-induced-superselection", or
einselection.
[4] The decohered elements of the system no longer exhibit
quantum interference between each other, as in a
double-slit experiment. Any elements that decohere from each other via environmental interactions are said to be
quantum entangledwith the environment. The converse is not true: not all entangled states are decohered from each other.
Although it must be said people often speak a bit loosely about it. For example decoherence is usually considered to be irreversible, but in explaining the delayed choice experiment I, and others say, in simple cases dechorence can be undone. Strictly speaking if it can be undone its not irreversible so wasn't decoherence to begin with. An in the double slit what happens to the electron as it travels from slit to screen is irrelevant - in fact its usually a vacuum.
What I was trying to get across in the double slit is the key decoherence occurs at the screen.
Thanks
Bill