Ooh, yes, I should be there to celebrate your birthday with you. I haven't booked anything yet, but I'd probably do like you're doing and fly on the 1st, then return whenever they make me come back. I was supposed to go to Seattle for MY birthday, but the friend who invited me just got told he has to go to Japan the SAME WEEK I was planning to visit, and of course the day AFTER I bought my ticket.

So, unless that gets rescheduled before the beginning of the year, I'll use the ticket to go to Disney (and that would make the trip his treat since the ticket was supposed to be my birthday present...:shy: though I feel guilty letting him pay when I don't even get to use it to visit him now).