If we look at Dimensions as variables, then we have no real problem. If we want to relate multi-dimensions to the spatial ones we can see and touch, then we are going to be disappointed; the 'distances' between objects in several dimensions are not going to make direct sense if these extra dimensions are not 'like' our XYZ representation. Maths neatly takes care of the problem but you must trust what it does and accept the resulting answers (a bit of a leap of faith, like with a lot of maths answers).
We accept that a 3D picture can be represented on 2D paper so it should not be too big a step to appreciate how 4D could be represented on a 3D model - which in turn, could be photographed and put on a 2D surface.
http://fathom-the-universe.tumblr.com/post/61285845800/this-is-a-calabi-yau-manifold-it-is-a shows one approach to representing multi-dimensions. Very pretty but it is a different matter to relate it to personal experience of 3D.
PS You have started your PF career with a really hard one!