jtbell said:
Our house amounts to less than 5% of our net worth, strictly speaking, so we don't really count it.
kyphysics said:
I will say that you're probably in a very small minority of not including your home! That is usually one of the main items people use.
That's probably true. Many/most people live more or less paycheck to paycheck and don't save much in IRA's, 401k's, savings accounts, etc. If they own a home, they do have to pay the mortgage on it, which increases their equity in the home, a form of forced savings. They end up later in life with a paid-off home as the main component of their net worth. Unless of course they borrow against it again via a home equity line of credit, as some people do.
I don't have all of our account statements any more from when we bought our house 33 years ago this summer. As best as I can reconstruct, our home equity at that time (the down payment) was about 15%-17% of our net worth. The value of the home was five times larger, but in terms of our net worth, it was of course mostly offset by the mortgage debt.
Until the mortgage was paid off, we saved both by contributing to our workplace retirement accounts and bank accounts, and by increasing our home equity via mortgage payments. The former increased faster than the latter, for two reasions. First, our incomes increased steadily (at least in nominal terms), whereas the mortgage payments stayed constant. Second, our retirement accounts (stock- and bond-based mutual-fund-like accounts) grew over and above our contributions, much faster than our home equity did. Our house in a small town in the Southeast is now worth more or less the same as when we bought it, after taking inflation into account, unlike houses in major coastal urban areas. Our other investments grew by a lot in the 1990s and 2010s, over and above inflation, even though they only came out about even in the 2000s because of the dot-com bust and the Great Recession.
So now our paid-off house is a much smaller fraction of our net worth than when we bought it.