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The discussion revolves around the challenges faced by a participant seeking advice on applying to graduate school after an eighteen-month hiatus from academia. The focus includes concerns about approaching professors for guidance and letters of recommendation, as well as strategies for re-entering the academic environment.

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  • One participant expresses intimidation about asking professors for advice after a long break from school and seeks guidance on how to proceed with graduate school applications.
  • Another participant suggests that applying to graduate school is the first step and mentions the importance of qualifying exams, which are valid for five years.
  • Some participants propose that contacting previous professors for letters of recommendation is necessary, even if the applicant feels uncertain about their past performance or relationships.
  • A participant shares their satisfaction with their GRE score but expresses concern about their grades and the difficulty in obtaining letters of recommendation from a busy professor.
  • Advice is given on how to communicate with professors tactfully, emphasizing that any response is better than none.

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Participants generally agree on the necessity of reaching out to professors for advice and recommendations, but there is no consensus on how to overcome the intimidation felt in doing so or the best approach to take in the application process.

Contextual Notes

Participants express varying levels of confidence regarding their academic records and relationships with professors, which may affect their ability to secure recommendations and advice.

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I want to get into graduate school and it has been eighteen months since i graduated college. I feel i timidated asking my professors for advice. Can anyone give me advice please?

Basically I guess I'm just asking how can I go about getting into graduate school after not doing school for eighteen months and not doing any science since then?
 
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Delong said:
I want to get into graduate school and it has been eighteen months since i graduated college. I feel i timidated asking my professors for advice. Can anyone give me advice please?

Basically I guess I'm just asking how can I go about getting into graduate school after not doing school for eighteen months and not doing any science since then?

The first step would be to apply. You'll need to take the qualifying exams if you haven't already. If you have already they're good for five years, although redoing them might be a good idea to either improve a score, or show you've still retained the information from your bachelors. You should contact previous professors for letters of recommendation if they still remember you, and can provide them. Basically, just go about it as though you didn't take a break. You can always explain the break in school in your SoP, or mention it in the application.
 
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You're going to to have to talk to your professors to get letters of recommendations, so you might as well ask them for advice at the same time.
 
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The first step would be to apply. You'll need to take the qualifying exams if you haven't already. If you have already they're good for five years, although redoing them might be a good idea to either improve a score, or show you've still retained the information from your bachelors. You should contact previous professors for letters of recommendation if they still remember you, and can provide them. Basically, just go about it as though you didn't take a break. You can always explain the break in school in your SoP, or mention it in the application.
Thanks for your reply sorry it took me so long to reply back to you. I took the GRE in 2013 and I'm very satisfied with my score but I'm not very happy with my grades and I don't think I have good letters of recommendation. I had an REU in summer 2013 but the professor I worked with works at a big university and almost never returns any of my e-mails or calls for a letter of recommendation. It is very annoying to work with but I understand professors are busy people and sometimes they don't like working with students. That's why I'm sometimes intimidated to ask my professors for a letter of recommendation or for some advice because I feel like I'm wasting their time.
 
Just try to be as tactful as possible in communicating with them, any response is better then none.
"Dear <x professor>, It would be very helpful if you could advise me concerning my interest in <careerer y>, do you think such a path would be suitable for me" ... & blah.
 
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