I like Serena said:
For a function $S_3 \to M$ I think it is canonical, since it is given in $M$ that $\tau(4)=4$.
Well, yes, that's true. I suppose the whole point of this could be summed up as "forget about 4".
However, that wasn't quite my point. Part of the point of the "abstract" in "abstract algebra" is to forget about the PARTICULARS of a given group, and focus on the PROPERTIES. For example, suppose we wanted to find an isomorphism from $S_3 \to N$, where:
$N = \{\rho \in S_4: \rho(3) = 3\}$.
Now, an "almost identity *function*" won't quite do the trick. It's convenient for
this exercise to think of $S_3$ embedded in $S_4$ by "leaving out the last element of $\{1,2,3,4\}$".
But such an approach doesn't involve any *symmetry*, the order of 1,2,3 and 4 in the set $\{1,2,3,4\}$ is an artifact of our counting system, the group $S_4$ doesn't care if the four things it is permuting are numbers, or letters, or any set of four elements. Put another way, as far as $S_4$ is concerned "4" isn't special. The key idea is that if anyone element is fixed by a set of permutations, any product of permutations in that set ALSO fix that element.
I don't mean to sound critical of your posts, because "you're not wrong". Everything you posted is true, and well-presented. I just can't seem to help pointing out that a more abstract approach is more useful in the long run, where we may not have "the accident of natural numbers" to help out.
I worry, of course, that this may just confuse mathmari, which is counter-productive.
mathmari said:
I got stuck right now... Why is the function $\{1,2,3,4\} \to \{1,2,3,4\}$ and not $\{1,2,3\} \to \{1,2,3,4\}$ ? (Wondering)
All the elements of $M$ are in $S_4$, and all of these are bijective mappings from $\{1,2,3,4\} \to \{1,2,3,4\}$.
$M$ is the subset of such mappings that map 4 to 4. The point of this exercise is to show that we can IDENTIFY (via an isomorphism) any such mapping with a unique element of $S_3$ that "does the same thing" (essentially). The elements of the group $S_3$ have a different domain and co-domain that the elements of $M$, but the only difference between these domains/co-domains is that 4 is in the domain = co-domain of everything in $M$, but not for the elements of $S_3$.
So in one direction we do this:
Extend $S_3$ to an action on the four-element set $\{1,2,3,4\}$ by taking $\sigma \in S_3$ and having $\sigma$ "do what it normally does" on 1,2, and 3, and having $\sigma$ "do nothing" to 4 (leave it fixed).
In the reverse direction, we take an element of $M$, and "forget about 4" (since it stays fixed), and just consider the bijective action of $M$ on "what's left" (1,2 and 3).