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Hi guys.
What's your opinion on people that judge the choices of other people?
I personally think that is rude to have the assumption you know what someone else you should do to have a better life.
There were many times people told me what in their opinion I should do, and what I shouldn't, and I didn't fell well when it happens.
I think that if you respect the law and other people without hurting someone spontaneously, you shouldn't be judged on what you do, or on what you choose to study or on which work you choose to do.
I agree with the fact that everyone can express his opinion, we unconsciously have an opinion on something, you can express it, but it is not right to judge negatively a person's choice of life.
In my opinion those kind of people are the one that think the world is not complex, that the nature is simple, and that everything have an answer.
Can I give some examples?
I have a friend with a degree in architecture that wasn't recognized by my country because was taken abroad.
He is married and he didn't want to lose his wife for a job in another country so he decided to became a baker, because he likes this work and he want to stay in this country. ( he didn't have any debit)
This person was judged by many people as incoherent, also by him father that don't want to see him.
I met another guy with a degree in history with the same problem, he preferred to became car driver instead of a teacher and he was judge by a lot of people, that probably thinks what is better for him.
We all have a personal opinion on a person, but if that person feels good and do not have bigs problem and not ask any advice, why we should know what makes that person happy, better then him?
What's your opinion on people that judge the choices of other people?
I personally think that is rude to have the assumption you know what someone else you should do to have a better life.
There were many times people told me what in their opinion I should do, and what I shouldn't, and I didn't fell well when it happens.
I think that if you respect the law and other people without hurting someone spontaneously, you shouldn't be judged on what you do, or on what you choose to study or on which work you choose to do.
I agree with the fact that everyone can express his opinion, we unconsciously have an opinion on something, you can express it, but it is not right to judge negatively a person's choice of life.
In my opinion those kind of people are the one that think the world is not complex, that the nature is simple, and that everything have an answer.
Can I give some examples?
I have a friend with a degree in architecture that wasn't recognized by my country because was taken abroad.
He is married and he didn't want to lose his wife for a job in another country so he decided to became a baker, because he likes this work and he want to stay in this country. ( he didn't have any debit)
This person was judged by many people as incoherent, also by him father that don't want to see him.
I met another guy with a degree in history with the same problem, he preferred to became car driver instead of a teacher and he was judge by a lot of people, that probably thinks what is better for him.
We all have a personal opinion on a person, but if that person feels good and do not have bigs problem and not ask any advice, why we should know what makes that person happy, better then him?