My Troubled Relationship with People

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The discussion centers on feelings of disdain towards people, stemming from personal experiences such as being hard of hearing and past bullying. The original poster expresses a deep-seated negativity, feeling that love is a construct and that many people are incompetent. This sentiment is echoed by others who share their own struggles with pessimism and the feeling of isolation, emphasizing a desire to vent frustrations. Despite the negativity, there are moments of lightheartedness and acknowledgment that not all interactions are negative. Some participants highlight the importance of recognizing good people and the value of online communities for connection. The conversation reflects a mix of pessimism and occasional optimism, with participants grappling with their feelings about social interactions and personal experiences.
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I think in the back of my head, I just plain hate people.

For one, I am not a smile at somebody person.

For second, I am hard of hearing, so I guess I have been raised up to hate people through my own psychological conditioning. Being taunted at while young is still being felt and always will be.

For another, I think some people are just incompetent fools.

There, that's my rant.
 
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But we love you.
 
Love doesn't exist. Instead, we give it meaning.

Everything else is just detail.
 
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How angsty! My turn:

Sometimes when I see two people talking quietly I pretend they're secretly badmouthing me. I'm a very conceited pessimist.
 
It doesn't seem like there are any unconscious processes going on here. You seem to fully cognizant that to some degree you don't like people. It's hard to understand to what extent you mean this. After all, you're posting on these forums and there are people here. If you really disliked all people, it seems you wouldn't want to interact with them, even online.
 
I just don't have anybody to talk to. I keep things all bottled up.

I see everything half empty and I would rather keep it that way.
 
ubermensch said:
I just don't have anybody to talk to. I keep things all bottled up.

Well, feel free to rant here. We all do it from time to time. :smile:

I see everything half empty and I would rather keep it that way.

I try hard to see things as they actually are, but that can be difficult. Sometimes I make errors by being overly optimistic and sometimes by being overly pessimistic. It goes both ways.
 
ubermensch said:
I just don't have anybody to talk to. I keep things all bottled up.

I see everything half empty and I would rather keep it that way.

Not all bottled up. You're discussing it.

Just because some people have been unkind to you in the past doesn't indict everyone now does it? There really are good people around most everywhere. Sometimes it just seems like there aren't.
 
ubermensch said:
I just don't have anybody to talk to. I keep things all bottled up.

I see everything half empty and I would rather keep it that way.

I also had a bad morning today. So, I slept to 1 PM, did some work, watched a movie, and I am back to normal :biggrin:

btw. I am a perfectionist or OCPD.
I just a wrote a professional report yesterday about my inefficiencies and made some recommendations. And, today I spent 6 additional hours sleeping/3 hours watching movie/lots of time doing absolutely nothing. :smile:
 
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You don't need people. You have the internets.
 
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I'm an optimist. My glass is half full. That girl wants me. The sun is going to shine tomorrow. The world is a beautiful place. The only thing I don't like is grumpy people. and aids...oh and any "cherry" flavored drink they all taste like cough syrup.
 
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ubermensch, are there times when you're quite happy and get along with people without feeling bitter or angsty toward anyone?
 
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tribdog said:
I'm an optimist. My glass is half full. That girl wants me. The sun is going to shine tomorrow. The world is a beautiful place.

my glass is twice the size it needs to be.
 
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