Using what basis? There are many different ways of defining the natural numbers and different ways of defining "<". Typically, "Trichotomy" is taken as part of the definitionof "<" for the natural numbers. How are you defining "<"?
A standard method is "<" is a binary relation on the natural numbers satisfying
1) If m< n and p is any natural number then m+p< n+p.
2) If m< n and 0< p, then mp< np.
3) If m and n are natural numbers then one and only one must be true:
a) m= n.
b) m< n.
c) n< m.
An equivalent definition is
"There exist a subset of the natural numbers, P, satifying
1) If m and n are both in P then mn is in P.
2) If m and n are both in P then m+ n is in P.
3) if m is a natural number then one and only one must be true:
a) m= 0.
b) m is in P.
c) -m is in P.
It is (3), of course, that is equivalent to "trichotomy". If you have that definition of "order", you define "<" by "a< b if and only if b- a is in P.