Should Men Living Alone Get a Cat?

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The discussion revolves around the idea of adopting a cat as a companion for a man living alone in a small condo. The individual expresses a desire for companionship without the high maintenance of a dog, especially given frequent travel for work. Concerns are raised about potential damage to belongings from a cat and societal perceptions of men owning cats. Participants in the thread largely encourage the idea of adopting an older cat from a shelter, emphasizing the benefits of having a low-maintenance pet that can be left alone for short periods. Opinions vary on the implications of a man having a cat, with some arguing that it can be seen as endearing rather than odd. The conversation touches on the emotional rewards of pet ownership, the practicality of adopting older cats, and the importance of finding a pet that fits the owner's lifestyle. Ultimately, the consensus leans towards the notion that personal happiness and companionship should take precedence over societal judgments.
  • #151
My cousin's cat Simon was mostly indoor, but she let him outside daily. Unfortunately, he was torn to shreds one day by a Rottweiler that had gotten off-leash.

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  • #152
TylerH said:
I'd say it depends on the cat. I've had cats that love the outside, and would run out the door at every chance. But, I've also had a cat that wouldn't stay outside if you threw him out.

I agree, the cat should make the choice. Some people think it's too dangerous outside for cats, and while it's true that there are hazards, the cat's well-being should be considered.

I mean, there are hazards to children too, but I wouldn't keep a kid locked indoors just to make sure they're safe.
 
  • #153
turbo said:
My cousin's cat Simon was mostly indoor, but she let him outside daily. Unfortunately, he was torn to shreds one day by a Rottweiler that had gotten off-leash.

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Sorry to hear that Simon was killed Turbo, Luna could have doubled as his sister. So sad...

Rhody... sheds a tear...
 
  • #154
rhody said:
Sorry to hear that Simon was killed Turbo, Luna could have doubled as his sister. So sad...

Rhody... sheds a tear...
Thanks. Simon was a sweetie. Very vocal when he wanted attention, too. He actually seemed to enjoy being bathed in the sink. He was one of the least "catty" cats that I have known. He and my cousin's Samoyed (Cody) got along very well. Of course, if you are a cat, what better "bed" to have for naps than a big fluffy dog like a Samoyed.
 
  • #155
She's under my bed and hasn't come out since I got home. Just in case I moved her litter box, food, water, scratching post, and toys into the room and shut the door hoping she would come out on her own.

We had a wonderful lunch together... I need to give her her meds... ugh... what am I supposed to do!?
 
  • #156
FlexGunship said:
She's under my bed and hasn't come out since I got home. Just in case I moved her litter box, food, water, scratching post, and toys into the room and shut the door hoping she would come out on her own.

We had a wonderful lunch together... I need to give her her meds... ugh... what am I supposed to do!?
Patience Flex,

Luna was the same way, she was at the shelter for only two weeks, but was traumatized by the experience, she came around once she started to "own" her environment. The longer a kitty is in a shelter the more time they need to get used to the new "less stressful environment". Maybe coax her out with a toy, but as long as she is safe, fed, watered and medicated, don't sweat it.

Rhody... :smile:
 
  • #157
Sometimes a little bit of butter helps a pill go down easy. Or you can grind up the pill and put it in a tiny amount of a favorite food like tuna fish or tuna broth. There are also "pill pocket" treats you can get to hide a pill inside a snack.
 
  • #158
My cat is watching me eat dinner across the table, at times I think she thinks she is human.
She seems to know when we have chicken, won't beg but sits patiently waiting for a few bits, then she is done. Smart cat.

Rhody...
 
  • #159
rhody said:
Patience Flex,

Luna was the same way, she was at the shelter for only two weeks, but was traumatized by the experience, she came around once she started to "own" her environment. The longer a kitty is in a shelter the more time they need to get used to the new "less stressful environment". Maybe coax her out with a toy, but as long as she is safe, fed, watered and medicated, don't sweat it.

Rhody... :smile:

Until 10 minutes ago she was NOT fed, watered, or medicated.

Math Is Hard said:
Sometimes a little bit of butter helps a pill go down easy. Or you can grind up the pill and put it in a tiny amount of a favorite food like tuna fish or tuna broth. There are also "pill pocket" treats you can get to hide a pill inside a snack.

Until 10 minutes ago she didn't have a favorite food.

But now...

I finally reached under the bed and gently removed her by the scruff of her neck. She seemed to immediately remember me. It was unpleasant, but first things first, she took her medicine. Then we did belly rubs until the phone ringing caused her to do a backflip off of my lap.

I think that reset her kitty brain because now we are playing, jumping, climbing, and running around like... uh, like... you know... a kitten. She used the litter box for the first time. Drank water for the first time, ate food, and now she is going nuts!

She's very curious and in a very exploratory mood now.
 
  • #160
When I brought my cat home from the shelter, the first day was great. All about exploring and eating. The second day he wouldn't eat and seemed depressed. I was very worried about him. But the 3rd day he was back to his happy self.
 
  • #161
I think that cats and dogs are wired very differently. When we brought Duke home from the shelter, he settled in immediately and was as happy as could be. Still, he would exhibit separation anxiety whenever I had to leave him alone. He still frets and whines when my wife doesn't come home at the "right" time after work. This is exacerbated by the fact that her shift is now working an hour early and an hour late every day to try to get out a critical shoe order, plus the loss of daylight saving time, so that it gets dark real early every afternoon.

I try to spend lots of time with him every day doing fun stuff, and I take him for rides in his Dog Limo, but he gets lonesome for his "momma". He never sleeps soundly unless all three of us are home together.
 
  • #162
Well, we played a lot last night.

This morning I found her upstairs hiding but not super-hiding (like the chair incident). She came out for me and we hung out for a bit. Then I took a shower, gave her her medicine, we hung out a bit more, I cleaned her box, replaced her food, and went to work.

I think she was bummed that I was leaving.

She's eats so little and sneezes so much. At what point should I worry?
 
  • #163
Flex,

Just a thought, with all the interest in your new kitty, post a YouTube video.

If it generates enough hits, we can coin a new phrase, "PF Kitty Viral".

Rhody... :redface: :cool:
 
  • #164
rhody said:
If it generates enough hits, we can coin a new phrase, "PF Kitty Viral".

That could explain the sneezing! The PF Kitty Virus.

EDIT: I think she might be stirring up a lot of dust from all of her exploring. I think it's making us both sneeze.

DOUBLE EDIT: I'll snag one tonight when I get home. I have bowling, though.
 
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  • #165
FlexGunship said:
That could explain the sneezing! The PF Kitty Virus.

EDIT: I think she might be stirring up a lot of dust from all of her exploring. I think it's making us both sneeze.
Nice... :wink:

Rhody...
 
  • #166
Ugh, I have to say it's the hugs that get me. I know I'm supposed to be a guy, and all... but she's so little and so enthusiastic about hugs. Oh, and nose-to-nose "kisses."

Oh, for the love of science... I'm going to have to go get my testosterone checked.
 
  • #167
Uh oh... I've just sensed a great disturbance in the force... as if millions of DVDs suddenly cried out in terror, and were suddenly silenced.
 
  • #168
FlexGunship said:
Well, we played a lot last night.

This morning I found her upstairs hiding but not super-hiding (like the chair incident). She came out for me and we hung out for a bit. Then I took a shower, gave her her medicine, we hung out a bit more, I cleaned her box, replaced her food, and went to work.

I think she was bummed that I was leaving.

She's eats so little and sneezes so much. At what point should I worry?

Well, my guess about the sneezing would be that upper respiratory infection you mentioned earlier. It's maybe odd that she's still having symptoms even after all the meds you've been giving her - perhaps a call to the vet would be a good idea?

That could also explain her lack of appetite. And the stress of moving, of course. Like MiH said, the first week or so out of the shelter, they might be a bit weird.
 
  • #169
lisab said:
Like MiH said, the first week or so out of the shelter, they might be a bit weird.

Not Pixel... she's not weird. She's creative.

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Sometimes it's difficult for... average... people to recognize feline brilliance. </snob>

EDIT: This was a joke, btw.
 
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  • #170
FlexGunship said:
Uh oh... I've just sensed a great disturbance in the force... as if millions of DVDs suddenly cried out in terror, and were suddenly silenced.

:smile:
 
  • #171
Okay, my new nutty cat obsession is combining with my olde-tyme engineering obsession to create a wallet-obliterating combo-attack on my bank account.

Look at this https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000GA7J8A/?tag=pfamazon01-20:

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Product Features
  • Modular & Expandable - Unlimited Designs
  • Easy Assembly
  • Easy Cleaning - Machine Washable Parts
  • Sturdy & Lightweight - Easy to Move
  • Replaceable Pieces

The manufacturer's http://www.felinefurniture.com/inde...category_id=2&option=com_virtuemart&Itemid=8"shows the following products:

http://www.felinefurniture.com/comp... back up... I'm playing. You can play after!"
 
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  • #172
The respiratory infection is a good explanation for the sneezing. Another cause of sneezing is dust. Perhaps she likes to hide in dusty places. Sneezing can also be caused by dusty cat litter. The "clumping" kind of litter is easier for both cats and humans to manage.

Is Pixel a long-haired cat?
 
  • #173
You can make her something home-made, Flex. Measure up a place where she is comfortable and figure out how much real-estate her new "apartment" might need, and build her something. You'll want to spend a bit of time asking around for low-nap carpet scraps (not the shag stuff that can snag in her claws -especially since you might be gone for a night or two!), and bits and pieces of luan or other thin plywood stuff to build enclosures for her. You can get perforated MDF (Masonite) for cheap, and that might make her real happy, since she will be safe and secure, and still be able to peek through the holes to watch what's going on.

I loved building a tree-like environment for my parrot, and she truly enjoyed it. If you have a place where you can cut the materials without making a mess, all you really need is some carpenters' glue, some screws, and a screwdriver (a decent cordless one would be nice).
 
  • #174
Stephen Tashi said:
The respiratory infection is a good explanation for the sneezing. Another cause of sneezing is dust. Perhaps she likes to hide in dusty places. Sneezing can also be caused by dusty cat litter. The "clumping" kind of litter is easier for both cats and humans to manage.

Is Pixel a long-haired cat?

She sure is! She's a regular Swiffer.

turbo said:
You can make her something home-made, Flex. Measure up a place where she is comfortable and figure out how much real-estate her new "apartment" might need, and build her something. You'll want to spend a bit of time asking around for low-nap carpet scraps (not the shag stuff that can snag in her claws -especially since you might be gone for a night or two!), and bits and pieces of luan or other thin plywood stuff to build enclosures for her. You can get perforated MDF (Masonite) for cheap, and that might make her real happy, since she will be safe and secure, and still be able to peek through the holes to watch what's going on.

I loved building a tree-like environment for my parrot, and she truly enjoyed it. If you have a place where you can cut the materials without making a mess, all you really need is some carpenters' glue, some screws, and a screwdriver (a decent cordless one would be nice).

I have a lot of materials around, actually (MDF, pine boards, etc.), and I love to build. But I have a condo and my work-space is my patio. Between low light in the evenings and cold days, I've given up on building for the season.

I've already thought about it, too. some 11.5"x11.5" pine boards make good surfaces with 1" dowels to connect them. I could even cut up fleece blankets to make the various "hammocks" or fabric walls for her to sleep in or walk on. Speaker box carpeting seems to be good for cats (in general) and I know where to get plenty for cheap.

That being said, I'll just spend the money for now rather than wait for spring.

EDIT: And say what you want, but the promise of reliving my Lego/K'Nex/Girder&Panel days is WAY too tempting.
 
  • #175
Should I be leaving the TV on while I'm at work? Would that help her not feel lonely? I have no idea if she is lonely, but I would be.
 
  • #176
So she's long haired. Does she have thick legs and big feet? I'm cat sitting such a cat - a Norwegian Forrest cat. They are very talkative.

I doubt TV will keep a cat company. Cats have exceptional hearing. It might mask sounds that disturb her if there are any.

Does she have a good "perch" in front of a window? Most cats like to look out windows, especially if they can see other animals outside. Don't open the window unless you're sure she won't claw through the screen. The ideal window perch would also be a place where she would feel hidden.
 
  • #177
Stephen Tashi said:
So she's long haired. Does she have thick legs and big feet? I'm cat sitting such a cat - a Norwegian Forrest cat. They are very talkative.

Yah, my Skogkatt never shuts up. :)
 
  • #178
FlexGunship said:
Okay, my new nutty cat obsession is combining with my olde-tyme engineering obsession to create a wallet-obliterating combo-attack on my bank account.

Hey Flex, have you seen these Cat Exercise Wheels? I always wanted to build one.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z_2qYNadEYg&feature=related
 
  • #179
My cousin's Siamese "talked" all of the time. Simon was one chatty cat, especially when he wanted attention. And when he was upset about something, the whole house would know - he'd make these "yowling" noises until somebody figured out why he was upset and help settle him down. He was quite a sweetie, though. I would have kidnapped him (in contrast to my sister's cats, which I would have given up to a shelter in a heartbeat) because he was so calm and collected. Some cats are quite flighty and unpredictable - not Simon.
 
  • #181
FlexGunship said:
Should I be leaving the TV on while I'm at work? Would that help her not feel lonely? I have no idea if she is lonely, but I would be.

Cats are naturally nocturnal animals. Given warmth and shelter, they are quite content to sleep all day.

Pixel will soon figure out where is the warmest place in the apartment (apart from yourself!), at which point your best option for a quiet life is just let her "live" there and reorganize the rest of the house for human use.
 
  • #182
FlexGunship said:
Should I be leaving the TV on while I'm at work? Would that help her not feel lonely? I have no idea if she is lonely, but I would be.
AlephZero said:
Cats are naturally nocturnal animals. Given warmth and shelter, they are quite content to sleep all day.

Pixel will soon figure out where is the warmest place in the apartment (apart from yourself!), at which point your best option for a quiet life is just let her "live" there and reorganize the rest of the house for human use.
I wouldn't sweat the TV or radio, Flex, Aleph is right, being left alone they alternate between sleeping and eating and patrolling their territory, that's their job and they are damn good at it. If you have any bugs or crawly things scurrying about, you won't for long. Don't forget about changing the litter with a scoop to filter it every two days, you want to start on a good foot. Be aware of things that might disagree with her. My cat eats dry food, dry treats with occasional table scraps, small amounts. Since she is long haired, think about hairball food as well, you will find them about when she coughs them up. Not to worry, no big deal. As for toys, stuff you make and invent is just as good as store bought stuff. I made an aluminum ball out of tin foil and get a lot of mileage out of that.

She will sharpen her little claws on carpets, etc... you can't stop it, usually when she is having a cat crazy moment when running around the house like being chased or chasing an imaginary predator. A loud "No" with a stomp of your foot will usually stop the scratching. I have posts where she can scratch if she wants. You can buy trimmers to trim the needle sharp claws, but if she is going outdoors I would suggest not doing it. That is her only form of defense, in addition to being able to launch herself four feet off the ground when frightened. I know people who have declawed their cats. I think it is cruel personally, would never do it myself. If ripping up furniture becomes a problem, you can install an electric fence indoors. I am told they work well, however, I don't need one myself.

Aleph is right about finding warm spots too. If my heat mats for plants are exposed, she will skootch into protect my pepper plants. Not that the hottest pepper plants need any protecting, they can fend for themselves quite nicely.

Oh yeah, you being a techie guy, they love laser pointers, you can be sure Pixel's cerebral cortex is properly programmed with horizontal and vertical movements of the pointer (healthy cat brain).

That's it for now. Here is a video for a few laughs... It's old, but the audio makes it worthwhile.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTasT5h0LEg"



Rhody...
 
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  • #183
You should get some catnip and see how your cat reacts. Not all cats respond to it, and even most that do don't go entirely crazy, but you never know.
 
  • #184
Stephen Tashi said:
So she's long haired. Does she have thick legs and big feet? I'm cat sitting such a cat - a Norwegian Forrest cat. They are very talkative.

I doubt TV will keep a cat company. Cats have exceptional hearing. It might mask sounds that disturb her if there are any.

Does she have a good "perch" in front of a window? Most cats like to look out windows, especially if they can see other animals outside. Don't open the window unless you're sure she won't claw through the screen. The ideal window perch would also be a place where she would feel hidden.

She doesn't have thick legs or big feet, and other than one yelp when she ran from the sound of heat (take that thermodynamics) she's never said a single word.

I bought a simple cat cave with a bed on top the day I got her and placed it next to the window part of the sliding glass door that leads to the patio. I have chipmunks that run through there so she should be entertained.

Math Is Hard said:
Hey Flex, have you seen these Cat Exercise Wheels? I always wanted to build one.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z_2qYNadEYg&feature=related

Hmm, no... looks more like someone's cray idea for perpetual motion. "You just put the cat in here..."

AlephZero said:
Cats are naturally nocturnal animals. Given warmth and shelter, they are quite content to sleep all day.

Pixel will soon figure out where is the warmest place in the apartment (apart from yourself!), at which point your best option for a quiet life is just let her "live" there and reorganize the rest of the house for human use.

She hasn't really picked a place. I've decided the sound of the front door frightens her. I can usually find her hiding upstairs under a wooden plank (not comfy or cozy, and not even well protected), or under my bed (well protected, but doesn't seem comfy, maybe cozy). She'll come trotting out though if she realizes its me walking around. If I'm around, then her favorite place is either on the stairs, in front of the TV, or directly under my feet.

rhody said:
I wouldn't sweat the TV or radio, Flex, Aleph is right, being left alone they alternate between sleeping and eating and patrolling their territory, that's their job and they are damn good at it. If you have any bugs or crawly things scurrying about, you won't for long. Don't forget about changing the litter with a scoop to filter it every two days, you want to start on a good foot. Be aware of things that might disagree with her. My cat eats dry food, dry treats with occasional table scraps, small amounts. Since she is long haired, think about hairball food as well, you will find them about when she coughs them up. Not to worry, no big deal. As for toys, stuff you make and invent is just as good as store bought stuff. I made an aluminum ball out of tin foil and get a lot of mileage out of that.

I left the radio on today. She just enjoys watching TV with me so much that I can't help but think she gets something out of it. I ordered some Baby Einstein DVDs for her (kidding). If I sit down for Dirty Jobs, she'll come to my lap for some petting, but ultimately set up camp on the arm of the chair and just watch. She doesn't attack the screen, or get startled by noises... she just watches. We watched the whole lightning-rod-installer episode together.

I've been cleaning her box after every, uh, incident. She's very polite about not scattering the litter everywhere, so I try to be polite about keeping it clean for her. I wouldn't want to use a half-flushed toilet; especially if I had to stand in it to use it. Besides, she's just barely learning to use it (at 4 months old) so I don't want to give her any excuse not to.

She looooooves her ball. An aluminum foil ball might even be better! I have a video of us playing fetch that I'll share in my next post.

rhody said:
She will sharpen her little claws on carpets, etc... you can't stop it, usually when she is having a cat crazy moment when running around the house like being chased or chasing an imaginary predator. A loud "No" with a stomp of your foot will usually stop the scratching. I have posts where she can scratch if she wants. You can buy trimmers to trim the needle sharp claws, but if she is going outdoors I would suggest not doing it. That is her only form of defense, in addition to being able to launch herself four feet off the ground when frightened. I know people who have declawed their cats. I think it is cruel personally, would never do it myself. If ripping up furniture becomes a problem, you can install an electric fence indoors. I am told they work well, however, I don't need one myself.

I'm not worried about her claws, she's been doing fine with the scratching post I've given her. We have had a few incidents, but I think some of them are because her claws aren't long enough to actually help her climb. She sort of scrambles up the side of the sofa. Every time she does it, she has the goal of getting to the top, so I don't bother punishing her for it.

I clap my hands loudly if she's doing something I want to discourage. The only bad behavior she really has is she plays with the tag on my subwoofer power cable which I think is dangerous. I clap my hands to stop her, wait for her to run (or sulk) away, and then give her a toy to play with instead.

I don't want her to think playing is bad, I want her to think playing with that specific tag is bad.

I have absolutely no plans to declaw Pixel ever, but I specifically avoided the Cocheco Valley Humane Society because you must sign a form promising never to declaw your cat if it's adopted from there. Just my stupid libertarian ideals... it's going to be my decision not to declaw her.

rhody said:
Aleph is right about finding warm spots too. If my heat mats for plants are exposed, she will skootch into protect my pepper plants. Not that the hottest pepper plants need any protecting, they can fend for themselves quite nicely.

Oh yeah, you being a techie guy, they love laser pointers, you can be sure Pixel's cerebral cortex is properly programmed with horizontal and vertical movements of the pointer (healthy cat brain).

Rhody...

Maybe I should get something then, there's really no "warm spots" in my condo. I leave the curtain open a little which warms the floor in the morning, but does nothing in the evening. I have a laser pointer, but it's... hardcore... I wouldn't want to risk burning her little kitty paws or retinas. I'll buy a few cheap ones from Wal*Mart next time.

TylerH said:
You should get some catnip and see how your cat reacts. Not all cats respond to it, and even most that do don't go entirely crazy, but you never know.

I think one of her shelter toys had catnip in it. It wasn't my plan to give it to her until she was comfortable in the house. I hate being dragged to an unknown place and drugged.
 
  • #185
We normally play with me out of sight, but for the purpose of the video I had to be seen. If you look at 1:05, that's usually how we play. I think she was putting on a show for the camera wrestling the ball all the way down the steps.





No need to watch past 1:30 or so... it was just hard to turn off the camera while still playing.
 
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  • #186
FlexGunship said:
Look at this https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000GA7J8A/?tag=pfamazon01-20:

51GGK8EJPJL._SL500_AA300_.jpg


Product Features
  • Modular & Expandable - Unlimited Designs
  • Easy Assembly
  • Easy Cleaning - Machine Washable Parts
  • Sturdy & Lightweight - Easy to Move
  • Replaceable Pieces

We ordered this yesterday. I can honestly say Pixel was the one who finalized the order.
 
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  • #187
She just enjoys watching TV with me so much that I can't help but think she gets something out of it. I ordered some Baby Einstein DVDs for her (kidding).

:smile: that one just kills me... (kidding)

BTW. The link for your video appears to be broken, at least for me. Luna does not care for TV at all, nor does she meow loudly, like the cat Turbo mentioned, she is a mellow, sometimes bordering on timid, but very sweet. Heat mats for plants work great too (for cat couch), especially in the winter on cold floors, you could put a small cat bed on top of it as well.

Rhody...
 
  • #188
rhody said:
Heat mats for plants work great too (for cat couch), especially in the winter on cold floors, you could put a small cat bed on top of it as well.

I haven't ever seen a heat mat for plants, but I've seen electric blankets and other types of "warmers" for people. Their directions warn not to put things over them. Are the plant heat mats safe for putting under towels and blankets?
 
  • #189
Stephen Tashi said:
I haven't ever seen a heat mat for plants, but I've seen electric blankets and other types of "warmers" for people. Their directions warn not to put things over them. Are the plant heat mats safe for putting under towels and blankets?
Stephen,

I have one under a plastic box that regularly gets water spilled on it, and another one with three large thin walled plant containers on that gets wet also. IMHO an electric blanket is way too big for a cat in a small cat bed, whereas a small heat mat 14x6 inches wide fits nicely. The heat mat never gets over 80 degrees F and if it is UL approved I assume it is fairly safe as well. An extremely cautious person would not use one just to be safe. I have had mine almost two years with no trouble UL listed so I would feel safe putting a small cat bed on top of it only when I was home to watch it just in case.

Rhody...
 
  • #190
rhody said:
BTW. The link for your video appears to be broken, at least for me.

Should be fixed now?Like my cat.
 
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  • #191
FlexGunship said:
Should be fixed now?

Nope, just post the real link above it.

The youtube format is: ignore the x at the end of youtube



[youtubex]nTasT5h0LEg[/youtubex]

Rhody...
 
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  • #192
rhody said:
Nope, just post the real link above it.

The youtube format is: ignore the x at the end of youtube



[youtubex]nTasT5h0LEg[/youtubex]

Rhody...


Got it, I did both... provided the link AND tried to fix the embedded video. I'm at work, so all YouTube links are blocked, it's impossible for me to tell if it worked or not. Thanks.
 
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  • #193
FlexGunship said:
Got it, I did both... provided the link AND tried to fix the embedded video. I'm at work, so all YouTube links are blocked, it's impossible for me to tell if it worked or not. Thanks.
Yep, you did it thanks.

Rhody...
 
  • #194
FlexGunship said:
We normally play with me out of sight, but for the purpose of the video I had to be seen. If you look at 1:05, that's usually how we play. I think she was putting on a show for the camera wrestling the ball all the way down the steps.





No need to watch past 1:30 or so... it was just hard to turn off the camera while still playing.


Clearly, Pixel is the luckiest cat, ever :smile:.
 
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  • #195
lisab said:
Clearly, Pixel is the luckiest cat, ever :smile:.

Clearly Flex, there is a lesson here, Pengy could stand to benefit by showing his sensitive caring side, instead of his hilarious ... busting obnoxious side once in awhile, if you get my drift, are you reading this Peng ? (Don't worry, he will be, hehe...)

Rhody... o:) :devil:
 
  • #196
rhody said:
Clearly Flex, there is a lesson here, Pengy could stand to benefit by showing his sensitive caring side, instead of his hilarious ... busting obnoxious side once in awhile, if you get my drift, are you reading this Peng ? (Don't worry, he will be, hehe...)

Rhody... o:) :devil:

I am perfectly awesome in every way imaginable. If you can't simultaneously see my sensitive, caring side simultaneously with my hilarious, sexy side, then you just aren't looking hard enough.
 
  • #197
Weekend upgrades:
  • Larger litter box with higher sides and removeable top
  • Litter Locker II (you think you can handle just throwing it into garbage bags, but you can't)
  • Laser pointer

In the time I've known Pixel, she has never really "meowed" until... we played with the laser pointer. It makes a loud clicking noise and has a jingly key-chain on it, so I think she associates these sounds with the laser pointer. Anyway, after our first 15 minute play session, I turned it off and she turned to look at me and say, clearly, "meow"...

... which started the second 15 minutes of the laser pointer game.

Ugh, I didn't play nearly enough Skyrim.
 
  • #198
I have a cheap green laser-pointer, Flex. If Duke sees me take that out of my desk drawer, he's all over me. He LOVES chasing that green spot all around. I like shutting off the beam when the spot reaches the furnace's floor-vent. He'll look in there and start "snuffing" trying to figure out where the green spot went.
 
  • #199
turbo said:
I have a cheap green laser-pointer, Flex. If Duke sees me take that out of my desk drawer, he's all over me. He LOVES chasing that green spot all around. I like shutting off the beam when the spot reaches the furnace's floor-vent. He'll look in there and start "snuffing" trying to figure out where the green spot went.

OMG, I did that to Pixel, but I made it disappear into her cat cave. That was a mistake. She was mucking about in there (removed all of her other toys) for a good five minutes before setting up shop just outside and staring into it.

I didn't really want to encourage that type of disappointment, so we played a bit more and I just ran up her up and down the steps in the same pattern until she got bored. Then it was okay to stop and she went back to normal cat activities.

Incidentally, I have a weird problem...

Pixel plays very well. I wasn't sure I wanted her to get used to playing with a person's hand, but she does a good job: she will open her mouth but won't bite (like a dog), and she'll bat at your hands with her claws tucked safely away. If she starts to get overly frisky, I just say (in a stern voice) "hey, be nice" and apply firm pressure to her belly; she calms right down. So far we have had zero biting or clawing incidents while playing.

However, I think she will ONLY bite when she's eating hard food which brings me to my problem: she won't eat treats. I think she loves the smell and taste, but she just gnaws on them a bit, and them spits them out. There aren't even tooth marks on them! She'll pounce them, bat them around, put them in her mouth and (basically) suck on them and spit them back out. This is true of both the salmon ones and the lamb/chicken ones.

She was eating some garbage called "Science Diet" in the shelter which is what I've been feeding her (came free from the shelter), but it's all fillers like wheat and animal by-products. (For the record I bought some good canned food with actual meat in it, but she'll only lick at it.) So I think she thinks it's only okay to bite into hard crunchy things. Are there any hard crunchy treats?
 
  • #200
My wife makes all of Duke's treats, and they are all hard and crunchy. I don't know how cats would react to them, though. She makes them just like she would cook for us, omitting the onions which can be harmful to dogs. A typical "cookie" might contain beef liver, bacon, carrots, whole-grain flour, and other stuff. She has a collection of dog-themed cookie-cutters, so most of his "cookies" have a cartoon-y bone shape.

Can you get Pixel to eat some or your own food? Some animals are quite willing to learn by example, so if you are eating some plain canned tuna for example, she might be tempted to follow suit.
 

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