If I were in a grumpy mood, I'd even say that the only important numbers are the pole mass,...
Then I guess you will be really grumpy once we have an ##e^+ e^-## collider with sufficient energy for ##t\bar{t}## produciton ;-) Because then the pole mass will be obsolete for doing precision measurements...
The pole mass of the top quark has an intrinsic renormalon ambiguity of ca. 200 MeV. When you want to be more precise than that, then you have to use a suitable renormalon-free mass scheme. That is not a distraction, that is a necessitiy if you want to reach a precision of around 50 MeV, as projected for top mass measurements at lepton-colliders (even at the HL-LHC some projections go down to 200 MeV).
And people are putting a lot effort in being very careful about which scheme to use for which situation, because it does have an impact on the quality of your results and the convergence of your perturbation series, so they will be grateful that you concede some value to their work ;-)
...but not enough to blame the MC authors.
Who is blaming the MC authors? I'm certainly not. Nobody is blaming anyone.
It is just a well accepted statement that we do not know how the mass scheme in a MC generator (and therefore the mass that is extracted in measurements relying on the reconstruction of the top decay products) is related to a renormalized mass in QFT. That is not saying that some MC authors were doing something wrong. Just that we have to investigate furhter, if we want to understand our measurments at the LHC better.
I also don't see how "conceding" more value to other mass schemes than the pole mass has anything to do with the issue of the MC mass at all (or how else should I read your "but not enough to bame the MC authors"?) Because the MC mass will not be equivalent to the pole mass either, so this issue is independet of your preference for one particular mass scheme.
In any event, for the top, this is around a GeV out of 175 GeV. That's 0.6%, but we could always argue about whether 1 GeV is really 1.2, 1.5, 0.9, 0.6, etc. It's peanuts compared to light quarks.
But it is not peanuts compared to the experimental uncertainties, and that is what matters when you have to decide whether it is a relevant effect that you should address in your theory predictions or not.
Now we went again astray discussing about top quark mass definitions and measurements, and I hope it's no problem for Dale since it is his thread, but it's hard to leave some statements uncommented.
Anyway, related to the OP questions one has to say that due to confinement the mass of any quark in any renormalization scheme is not more than a Lagrangian parameter, much like any other coupling, and not to be interpreted as the "physical mass" of a free quark (as you would do with the pole mass for non-colored particles). I think we all agree on that, independent of whether you like the pole mass much more than other schemes.