Hi James MC...
Can someone please tell me what the mechanism behind this is?
I doubt anyone can...I know I cannot. I doubt this has a specific widely agreed upon answer... but good question...QM has lots of them! Perhaps you are coming from the perspective we know what a 'particle' actually is??
The 'moment of collapse' to which you refer might be a measurement, a detection, or quantum confinement within an expanding cosmological particle horizon.
Another way to think about the return to wave function tails is as 'a return to normalcy'.
Three posts on this subject I liked from others in these forums:
TomStoer:
Particles appear in rare situations, namely when they are registered.
Marcus:
The trouble with the particle concept is that one cannot attribute a permanent existence; It only exists at the moment it is detected. The rest of the time there is a kind of spread out thing---a cloud---a wave---a field---something that is less "particular", something that cannot be detected...
Meopemuk:
...According to scientific method we are not allowed to speculate about things that cannot be registered/observed/verified. If we do use such unobservable things (e.g., wave functions, quantum fields, etc) in our formalism we should keep in mind that these are mathematical tools unrelated to the physical world……
The last quote might support your perspective that the localized particle is 'real', the wave not so much?? I've come to the opposite conclusion,myself, but remain open minded, after many discussions in these forums [see one link below].
The line of demarcation between mathematical representations and the physical, observable, world is often not so clear as we might prefer:
...complex imaginary numbers and their operators are associated with virtual particles, which cannot be detected, while complex real numbers and their operators are associated with real [detectable] particles.
why...as atyy posted, it's a mathematical form of expression that has proved useful.
Carlo Rovelli provides this perspective:
...A particle detector measures a local observable field quantity (for instance the energy of the field, or of a field component, in some region). This observable quantity is represented by an operator that in general has discrete spectrum. The particles observed by the detector are the quanta of this local operator...
[This relates to vela's description].
In some views, 'collapse of the wavefunction' is not even required...there is no universal agreement that it even happens. [more in the link below]
...an instant later the wave-function will have acquired "small tails" spreading to infinity in all directions.
I personally find that a bit fanciful. I'd suggest alternatively the wavefunction has remained confined, bounded, at the cosmological particle horizon', just beyond the Hubble sphere. Nobody can prove local detection 'removes' the wavefunction. [An analogy might be...detecting the voltage of a lightning strike does not eliminate the bolt of lightning itself...all we may 'see' is a local phenomena.
Jolb:
...Now each of these momentum eigenstates can roughly be thought of as a wave which "moves" along at a rate proportional to its momentum p0.
yes...OR you can think instead of those energy states always being present in spacetime, and what we detect is a local phenomena ala Rovelli's description.
...its state is a superposition of momentum eigenstates
So there may be an infinite number of underlying constituent waves...
For lots more on particles and discussion of the above descriptions, check out this discussion:
What is a particle:
https://www.physicsforums.com/showthread.php?t=386051