Hi Hazel! You have already gotten great answers, and seem to start to get a grip on the QM formalism of superpositions!
The question "why" anything occurs though is always a tricky slope with no definite answer... If you ask why A is true and someone says it is because of B, you just then transferred the question to why B is true, etc with no end. Nevertheless, I think you might benefit from understanding a bit more about the kind of experiments that forced us to conclude that classical physics totally failed to describe microscopical stuff, and that we *had* to introduce superpositions (and the whole formalism of quantum mechanics!) in order to not be wrong about what happens in nature. Studying those experiment in a little more detail will also give you a better understanding of what the concept of superpositions means in terms of actual observable facts.
In short (as also mentioned by
@PeterDonis) it is the possibility of interference between (classically) different and mutually exclusive states that force us to introduce the concept of superpositions. The simplest example is the double slit experiment, where it is easy to show that if we make the (very plausible!) assumption that particles only can be at one position at any given time, the results we would get can never match the interference effects that we do see in real experiments. That is the very big difference between a superposition and classical ignorance. (Classical ignorance would be that particles have positions at all times but we sometimes just don't know which exactly where they are. That is called a "classical mixture" of states. Many popular scientific sources are not really clear about this crucial distinction!)
I always thought Richard Feynman has the best basic explanation of the double-slit experiment and superpositions (and a lot more!) in his excellent books "The Feynman Lectures of Physics". These are available free online nowadays, and I think you would enjoy the first chapter in Vol III:
https://www.feynmanlectures.caltech.edu/III_01.html (in particular section 1-5)