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I didn't start out thinking about light, although it was always puzzling to me that light, or ElectroMagnetic Radiation (EMR) had all the properties of a wave but did not require a medium. But I was attempting to visualize Einstein's idea of matter "warping" the space/time continuum that surrounded it. From this I concluded that Space (I dropped the "time" part of it, at least for the moment) had to have structure or it could not "warp". So I wondered what the structure of space was. Is there, for example, something out there between the Earth, for example, and the Sun? I concluded that actually, there was something.
There was gravity and there were also numerous particles, charged and uncharged, atomic and subatomic. I began to think of space as a matrix, dense in the region surrounding planets, thin in the space between. These particles, even though of low density, nonetheless relate to each other by charge (attraction/repulsion) and they also participate in the gravitational fields that permeate all known space. The assumption here is that gravity, although relatively weak, is essentially infinite in range. The attraction simply decreases with the square of distance (Newton's inverse square law). So I wondered: does gravity affect light? The answer is yes, postulated by Einstein, confirmed experimentally. There ARE gravitational lenses.
So: if gravity affects light, does not light also affect gravity? Newton's third law requires that it does.
I then visualized the gravity within space as a kind of fluid, fluid in that it is a relationship between all masses, and that the attraction between these masses changes constantly with relative motion of the masses. I concluded that light, as energy, could cause a temporary change (very small; but then, it doesn't have to be big, it just has to exist) in this relationship. This change, propagating through the fields, is the light wave, and the fields might satisfy the requirements to be a "medium" for light.
So there it is. I look forward to your replies.