The confusion that I see in this thread is a common one. And apparently cleared up now.
The mistaken intuition is that forces are "transitive". For instance, if you push on a rod with a force of 100 N then intuition says that the rod must push on the next thing with an equal force of 100 N.
Similarly, if gravity is pulling backward on a fellow with a force of <whatever> then intuition says that the force of static friction on the fellow's shoes must be resisting exactly that amount of force.
Of course, this intuition is wrong, wrong, wrong. Newton's second law is the tool that tells you how hard the rod or the fellow's shoes will be pushing on the next thing.