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gravenewworld
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I love going to weddings they are so much fun. My neighbor just had a wedding. He said it cost almost 10 grand just for the open bar.
An Extravagant Wedding: The Chump and His Bride
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Discussion Overview
The discussion revolves around the extravagance of modern weddings, particularly focusing on a televised wedding that featured excessive spending on luxury items and services. Participants express various opinions on the appropriateness of such expenditures, the nature of weddings, and alternative approaches to celebrating marriage.
Discussion Character
- Debate/contested
- Conceptual clarification
- Meta-discussion
Main Points Raised
- Some participants criticize the high costs associated with extravagant weddings, suggesting that spending large sums is illogical and indicative of shallow values.
- Others propose simpler alternatives, such as eloping or having a small ceremony with minimal expenses, emphasizing that a wedding does not need to be extravagant to be meaningful.
- There are discussions about the societal expectations surrounding weddings and the pressure to conform to lavish celebrations.
- Some participants express disdain for wedding invitations that request monetary gifts, labeling them as rude and inappropriate.
- A few participants suggest charitable donations as a preferable alternative to traditional gift registries, questioning the necessity of material gifts for couples who may already have established households.
- Concerns are raised about the potential for financial strain resulting from expensive weddings, particularly for couples who may not be financially secure.
Areas of Agreement / Disagreement
Participants generally disagree on the value and necessity of extravagant weddings, with multiple competing views on what constitutes an appropriate celebration of marriage. There is no consensus on the best approach to weddings, as opinions vary widely.
Contextual Notes
Some participants reference personal experiences and anecdotes, which may reflect individual biases and assumptions about marriage and weddings. The discussion includes a mix of humor and serious commentary, highlighting the diverse perspectives on the topic.
Who May Find This Useful
Readers interested in cultural perspectives on weddings, financial implications of wedding planning, and alternative celebration ideas may find this discussion relevant.
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DaveC426913
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if and only ifDanger said:As in the way that your 'f's are excessive?
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laminatedevildoll
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I don't see anything wrong with a platinum wedding. 
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ShawnD
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turbo-1 said:
That sounds like a lot of fun. Sort of like a back yard bbq with a theme.
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turbo
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It was fun. We borrowed the town hall above the fire-house, so we had access to a kitchen, tables, folding chairs, etc. Everybody brought food, so the cost was spread around pretty good.ShawnD said: