Orodruin said:
So the bottom line is: It depends on what the OP means by ”object”. @Bobthefreeradical please specify.
This is a key question to be answered. In the original statement of the problem, OP mentions two possibilities
1. Two vehicles moving in opposite directions at 60 mph each and crashing head on.
2. One vehicle moving at 120 mph and crashing into a stationary "object".
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@Bobthefreeradical :
You ask whether "F would be the same as if said vehicle were to have been crashed into a stationary obstacle and not another vehicle."
I assume that by F you mean the average force exerted on said vehicle while the momentum transfer takes place. If so, then we can safely say that it would be the same if the stationary obstacle is the vehicle in possibility 1. However, you clearly excludes that possibility. In that case, the answer is "it depends on the mass of the stationary obstacle." There are two extreme cases.
In the first case the mass of the stationary obstacle is much
smaller than the vehicle, imagine a bee ##\text{(}m\approx10^{-4}~##kg##\text{)}## hovering in mid air minding its own business. In the second case the mass of the stationary obstacle is much
greater than the vehicle, imagine a concrete bunker firmly attached to the Earth (##m\approx 6\times 10^{24}~##kg).
Where, in this range, is your "stationary object"? Do you see why the answer matters if you want to make a comparison between possibilities 1 and 2?