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Brilliant! said:I think you're being selective in the way you'd like to view lying and deceiving. Perhaps I'm not explaining myself well enough, but I can assure you that I am seeing the whole truth, and it is beneficial to everyone.
But I get the feeling that you are dead set and planted firm on this ambiguous middle ground and have already made up your mind. Maybe things aren't always black and white, but that doesn't mean that everything is a million shades of gray. I can tell you with certainty that lies and deceit (and just plain old ignorance) are the problems with American society, and the world. I don't need empirical evidence, I can see it and hear it all on my own. And so can you. I'm not being facetious or outrageous when I tell you that you can trace most problems back to lies, whether it be lies to yourself (denial) or to a friend, or to a whole group of people.
See, you see deceit as a 'problem'. When I just view it as an everyday occurrence. The truth can bring problems also. If you saw all truths, you would be overwhelmed. There's starving kids out there, people that for some reason, lack the facilities to look out for themselves. But you don't care, right? I'm not saying I care either. It's just that we see the truths which are beneficial and relevant for us. You do the same when you only speak of or care for only the things or people relevant to you. And that is what a lie is, and it is also truth, as in, you are living as what is true for your own benefit. We all live it. You want to distinguish deceit and truth when I'm trying to show you how we're all a part of both of them no matter how hard we try to escape them. There is no right view, is what I'm saying. No view more valid than any other.
There is always hypocrisy, always two sides which make up a whole. And those two sides collide; they can be as ambiguous or as distinguished as you like. You can find where the muddle and you can set some arbitrary border or definition but as I like to say, the universe is a gray, gooey place. It is not as binary as you may think. There is always an inter-connection between what seems two separate entities.