Silviu said:
for a system with 2 levels with energies ##E_b > E_a##, if you send light to it (or a sinusoidal perturbation) the probability of an electron going from state a to state b is the same as going from state b to state a.
It's important to be clear about exactly what this is saying. Here is a more elaborate statement of the result: if the external EM field is in a state containing photons of frequency ##\omega_{ab} = (E_b - E_a) / \hbar## the probabilities of the following two events are equal:
(1) The system in the higher energy level ##E_b## emitting a photon and dropping to the lower energy level ##E_a##; this also adds a photon of frequency ##\omega_{ab}## to the external EM field.
(2) The system in the lower energy level ##E_a## absorbing a photon and raising to the higher energy level ##E_b##; this also removes a photon of frequency ##\omega_{ab}## from the external EM field.
Obviously these two events can't both happen at the same time, because they require different initial conditions. But also, they both require the external EM field to be in a particular state.
Silviu said:
Then he talks about spontaneous emission, when the electron goes from b to a without shining any light due to the fact that the ground state is never zero in QED.
Again, let me make a more elaborate statement of this result:
(3) If the external EM field is in the ground (i.e., vacuum) state, and the system is in the higher energy level ##E_b##, there is a nonzero probability for the system to emit a photon and drop to the lower energy level ##E_a##. This process also takes the external EM field from the ground (vacuum) state to the (non-vacuum) state containing one photon of frequency ##\omega_{ab}##.
Notice that the initial condition for this is different from either of the initial conditions for #1 or #2 above.
Silviu said:
He then says that stimulated and spontaneous emissions are basically both stimulated emissions, just that in the first case it is a filed put there on purpose (not existing there without any external intervention).
The logic behind this is that process #3 above can be viewed as a virtual photon of frequency ##\omega_{ab}## stimulating the emission of a real photon of the same frequency, i.e., the same as process #1 except that the photons already "contained" by the external EM field are virtual instead of real. However, it's important to recognize that this is just a heuristic description, and you have to be careful drawing inferences from it.
Silviu said:
If for an external photon with the energy (##E_b-E_a##) the electron is equally likely to go from a to b and from b to a, why when the photon comes from the ground state of the vacuum, it doesn't behave the same way?
Because the process of absorbing a photon, process #2 above, requires there to be real photons in the external EM field to be absorbed. Or, to put it another way, process #2 above absorbs energy from the EM field, so the EM field after the absorption is in a lower energy state than it was before. But if the EM field is in its ground (vacuum) state, there is no lower energy state for it to go to, so there is no way for the two-level quantum system to absorb a photon from it. (By similar logic, the two-level system in its lower energy state cannot emit a photon, because there is no lower energy state for it to drop to after the emission.)