Since you're working with metals, you might have to employ Density Functional Theory, and even that will be difficult! Depending on the size of your system and your computing resources, you have a few different options. Whether you decide to do that or not, here's a good introduction to the theory behind it (go to Youtube for the full playlist):
I don't know if molecular dynamics (MD) software will do what you need, from the limited knowledge I have it's usually completely organic systems modeled with molecular dynamics. But if you end up needing to do quantum chemistry, a couple good places to start are the program ORCA (which has the best documentation I've ever seen), or the program Firefly (which has less experimental algorithms than ORCA, and may be faster for your purposes). If you need something to create your nanoparticles with, I've used Avogadro and Gabedit before, and have liked them both (I think Gabedit has an ORCA input file maker, too, which is nice).
Since I don't know your topic well enough, I can't promise this is right, but if you're looking for a reaction or change of phase, using the softwares mentioned above you may want to do transition state searches.
Good luck!