Consider a quadratic graph that passes through the points (-1,3), (0,1) and (1,3)
The general form of thw quadratic is y = ax^2+bx+c, so we can form the three equations:
3 = a(-1)^2 + (-1)b + c = a-b+c
1 = a(0)^2 + (0)b + c = c
3 = a(1)^2 + (1)b + c = a+b+c
Clearly, we already have c=1.
Add the first and last equations together and we get:
6 = 2a + 2c = 2a + 2 (since c=1)
Hence a=2.
You can then plug in a=2 and c=1 into the first equation and solve for b to find that b=0, hence the equation for the graph is y = 2x^2 + 1EDIT: aha elect_eng beat me to it :P ah well i guess two examples is better than 1

Also, is there any reason you are referring to 'a' as the gradient of the graph? For a linear equation, the coefficient of x is the gradient because the slope does not change along the whole line, however for a quadratic, the slope does change, so it not always equal to 'a'.