jonatron5 said:
I have been doing some reading and from what i inderstand of relativity(which isn't much granted) it states that space and time can be viewed as a single entity that mass bends warps and affects in various ways.
We have a pretty good understanding of how mass affects space in 3 dimensions. For example orbital mechanics. But my question , is it known at all as to how mass affects time?
Also perhaps a less tangible question, what is time? How does it work. Surely if we have valid theories that describe mass interactions with spacetime we xan draw conclusions about time, as we can about the space
These are pretty broad question, to which I can give a pretty broad answer. Operationally, space is what we measure with a ruler, and time is what we measure with a clock. So that answers the "what".
As far as space-time goes, one might think that rulers and clocks measure two different and unrelated things. The constancy of the speed of light for all observers, though, shows a very close relationship. In fact, the most precise operational definition of distance we have is how far light travels in a certain amount of time. One can see this, in, for example, the SI definition of the meter, see for instance
http://physics.nist.gov/cuu/Units/meter.html
The meter is the length of the path traveled by light in vacuum during a time interval of 1/299 792 458 of a second.
This doesn't show that space-and time ARE related, but suggests that the COULD be related. But there is more reason to think they are related than the above.
One good description of why we unify space and time into "space-time" is given in the parable of the surveyor, which one can find in chapter one of "Space-time Physics". This is a standard SR textbook, the older first edition is available online at the author's website,
http://www.eftaylor.com/download.html.
The point of the parable is this: We first ask "why are north-south, and east-west, considered both to be parts of the same thing, rather than something completely different?"
Then an analogy is made, in which it is shown that space and time have much the same relationship as north-south and east-west do. Rather than go through the details of the analogy, I'll encourage you to read the source I mentioned. I could give a brief description of it, but the briefeness would come at the expense of using technical language.
If you are interested enough to read the source, and still have questions, I might say more.