I have no idea how you think you can tell if something "objectively exists", especially via experiment (which is what science is primarily about), so I won't address this part of your question. You're on your own, enjoy.
I think things might go better if we discuss Euclidean geometry for a moment, and once we have a common understanding or an agreement to disagree about that, we can revisit relativity. At least I'll attempt to -as I wrote this, things started to branch out a bit.
One can measure distance with a ruler. So, I'd assume you would share the belief that it's a physical quantity. "Entity" seems to be a bit on the wrong track to me, I don't usually think of distance as an "entity". But that may be just the way I use the words.
I would say that geometry, which I think of as the study of distance, is more of a mathematical structure. So, we have "physical" distance, and the theoretical structure of Euclidean geometry that organizes it. Note that we have some closely related alternatives to Euclidean geometry, for instance spherical and hyperbolic geometries. And, somewhat importantly for later on, we have Riemannian geometry.
Now, let's move on to relativity.
The organization principle of special (and general) relativity basically replaces "distance" with the "Lorentz interval".
So, the obvious the next question would be - is the Lorentz interval real? An argument for, is that it's the same for all observers. Distance, in special relativity, is NOT the same for all observers. Proper time, the sort of time one measures with a clock, falls into the category of a Lorentz interval, and proper distance, the sort of distance one measures with a ruler, also falls in the category of the Lorentz interval. So I would put proper distance, proper time, and the Lorentz interval all into the "physical" category.
As an aside, I view most tensor quantities as "existing". This may not help if you are not familiar with tensor quantites. The key point of tensor quantities is that while they may have components that depend on the observer, the structure as a whole has rules that allow these components to be transformed between observers. Sorry if you're not familiar with tensors, this may be moot. If you are familiar and have some thoughts about whether tensors are "real", you could consider sharing these thoughts in the intersts of communication and discussion.
Going back to the Lorentz interval - I imagine one could come up with an argument that The Lorentz interval is a mathematical construct of some sort, but that's not my view. While one could argue about that, my personal reaction is that it is the sort of argument that doesn't go anywhere I find interesting, it's mostly about semantics.
This discussion may not help if you're not familiar with the Lorentz interval. Sorry about that if that's the case. Taylor & Wheeler's "space-time physics" talks about them a lot, I have always found "The Prable of the Surveyor" to be particular helpful, for whatever that's worth. Realistically, though, if you're not already familiar with the term and its implications, it would probably be a huge digression to talk about it. If you're interested in relativity, it'd be worth your time, it's just wouldn't be appropriate for this thread.
We can regard the organizational principles of the Lorentzian geometry, the geometry of the Lorentz interval, in the same category that we put Euclidean geometry, the study of distances. Special relativity is then a particular case of the geometry of the Lorentz interval, one that applies to "flat" spacetimes. General relativity opens things up to different geometries. General relativity basically applies Riemannian geometry to the Lorentz interval. (Some purists call it pseudo-Riemannian geometry for technical reasons).
The fact that one can apply the structure of a geometry (Euclidean or Riemannian) to multiple physical concepts is one argument for why I think of them as being organizational structures rather than physical entities.
So to recap the points I think are most important. "Distance" and "Lorentz intervals" are IMO physically measurable quantities which exist independent of the observer. The organization of either into a geometry is more mathematical. The same math can be used to organize different things, the math assumes some basic axioms, if the axioms fit the physics, we apply the structure of the math to the physical objects to draw conclusions.