dyn said:
All of these things are highly heuristic (i.e., be careful how you use them) ways of describing kets and bras. Or more precisely, describing a (vaguely defined)
representation of kets and bras.
Kets (and bras) are in general best left unvisualized, so to speak: when trying to prove anything about them in general, you should only use their known general mathematical properties, which will be valid regardless of any choice of representation. The only time you should choose a representation is when you have to--i.e., when there is no other way to do some particular calculation you want to do.
For the specific kets and bras you are talking about, i.e., those in the Hilbert space of a single particle (and its dual), there actually is no well-defined "infinite vector" representation. The only really well-defined representation you will see in most textbooks is the wave function representation, where ##\psi(x)## is a function (and operators on the Hilbert space are represented as operators on functions, mostly but not always differential operators). The technical issue with this representation is that, strictly speaking, the Hilbert space only consists of square integrable functions, and the eigenfunctions of the position and momentum operators, namely the "delta function" ##\delta(x)## and the plane wave ##e^{i k x}##, which are often used as two possible choices of basis for the Hilbert space, are not square integrable, so they aren't actually in the Hilbert space. There are ways of dealing with this, which is why it is only a technical issue and does not invalidate the wave function representation.
Many other Hilbert spaces, such as those for spin, are finite dimensional, so there
is a valid vector representation (with operators being matrices), which is easier to use.