Suekdccia said:
Frankly I am utterly confused.
That's because, first, you are trying to understand this topic in terms of vague ordinary language instead of math, and second, because unfortunately the vague ordinary language that gets used when discussing this topic, even by professional physicists, is even more vague and confusing than usual.
In terms of the actual math, the distinction between what is "real" and what isn't is fairly clear: if something is a direct observable, or appears in
all mathematical models that predict a direct observable, then it's "real". But if something isn't a direct observable, and only appears when you do the math in one particular way, not in other ways, then it's not "real".
By this criterion, the nonzero cosmological constant is "real" because it's closely linked to a direct observable: accelerated expansion of the universe. Every mathematical model we have that predicts this has a nonzero cosmological constant, or something that acts, mathematically, just like one.
To the extent that the term "vacuum energy" is used to
mean a nonzero cosmological constant or something that acts mathematically just like one, "vacuum energy" would also be "real".
However, "virtual particles", "vacuum fluctuations", etc. are
not "real" by the above criterion, because they aren't directly observable and they only appear in the math when you do the math one particular way: perturbation theory. There are other ways of doing the math in which they don't appear at all.
And to the extent that "vacuum energy" is used to mean virtual particles, vacuum fluctuations, etc., "vacuum" energy would also not be "real".
So to even answer the title question of this thread at all, you first need to answer the question: what do you
mean by the term "vacuum energy"? And that's a matter of choice of words, not physics. The physics is the same no matter what you choose to mean by "vacuum energy"; all that changes is which part of the physics you are using "vacuum energy" to refer to.
Suekdccia said:
No offense but it seems like as if this topic in physics is just philosophy and there is no one unique truth but different equally valid contradicting interpretations and theories :s
This is not correct. The actual physics is clear and well tested. The issue is that different people use the same vague ordinary language to describe
different parts of the physics.