Somebody already posted the standard model particle list upthread. Ignore photons (the electromagnetic field), gluons (the strong force), up and down quarks (they make up protons and neutrons) and electrons. Everything else is made up of the other stuff on the list. Plus, we don't know yet what dark matter and dark energy are (if they're not just a flaw in our understanding of gravity).
I think the problem is that you aren't really asking questions about physics, just about words. Here is the Lagrangian for the standard model:
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Wikipedia). This is a "Theory of Everything Except Gravity". There is no term in it for "everything" (or even "everything except gravity"). There is no term in it for "matter", although there are terms in it that describe the behaviour of everything in the standard model list posted earlier, so some subset of the terms describe whatever you choose to mean by the word.
Agreeing exactly which of the terms in that expression correspond to the word "matter" is entirely irrelevant to getting anything done - it's just stamp collecting, as Rutherford once said. If we believe we know which of the terms are relevant to an experiment we can calculate the behaviour of the experiment and compare our prediction to the reality. If it matches, great. If it doesn't (and we can't explain it as some other term we forgot to account for) then we have evidence for something new. Whether the terms we include are labelled "matter" or not changes nothing about the outcome.
(Note that most physics is
not done starting with the standard model Lagrangian. It would be like trying to predict the outcome of a football match by studying the motion of every atom in the stadium at the match start. Possible in principle but absurd in practice.)
Finally, here are three examples of this thinking in practice, although in the field of gravity rather than particle physics. In the 1980s we noticed some of our space probes weren't quite where we predicted them to be. That turned out to be something we forgot to account for - a small rocket effect due to an interaction between the crafts' radiothermal generators and their antenna. In the 1840s we noticed that some of the outer planets weren't quite where we predicted them to be. That turned out to be something we didn't know to account for - Neptune, then undiscovered. In the 1890s we noticed that Mercury wasn't quite where we predicted it to be. That turned out to be that our theory of gravity was wrong, and was explained by General Relativity.
Notice that none of this hinges on arguments about names - it's all quantitative prediction and testing. Our problem at the moment is that we know our theories aren't completely correct, but we have never been able to generate a situation where they make detectably incorrect predictions. So we have little leverage in trying to develop better theories.