That's why the mass-geodesics are ellipses.
The problem is not so much modelling it so the top guys can understand it - but coming up with a picture that let's everyone else grasp some of the fundamentals ... to do that you have to sacrifice something.
The mass on a sheet metaphor is supposed to exploit peoples intuitive ideas about gravity to help them understand how something "curving" can lead to attraction and curved paths and so on.
So it is an analogy.
Two weights close together will roll together for example - not the same way that it happens with gravity but they come together. Scoot a small pellet across the sheet and it gets deflected by the bigger masses - line it up right and you can get it to go right around the bigger mass. And so on - it can be quite seductive.
However - you put a grid on the relaxed sheet and then put masses on it - the grid-lines bend
towards the mass... no so helpful. However, what works better at the higher level risks losing the regular folk.
Like I said before, I don't think the pics we regularly see are supposed to be geodesics.
More something like this:
This is like those QM energy-level diagrams that also show the wavefunction using the level as an axis. The vertical dimension of each sheet is the gravitational potential at the horizontal coordinate on a plane that passes near a mass. The spheroid in the center represents the mass, not to scale, and I have sampled 4 parallel planes.
Flipping the direction of +V for the upper two sheets is for artistic license :), stops the top plots from obscuring the "planet", and reinforces the impression of the mass bending the space around itself.
I could probably do better by making the sheets slightly transparent.
It's a nasty fudge anyway but I think you can see what I mean.